Am I a whore?

  • Thegenuineart...

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    Jul 08, 2011 7:42 PM GMT
    I've only slept with one man & I waited a month and half into dating to sleep with him, to make sure that he was something atleast semi special.

    Though after we've broken up I've been doing quite a few hook-ups with guys Not sex, but everything but. Me and my friend have been discussing this issue for a while, would you classify me as slutty? Are these acts of intimacy on the same level as sex?
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    Jul 08, 2011 7:45 PM GMT
    I would consider it a matter of trying new things. Obviously you are not a whore.

    And if so...


    How much are you worth?icon_surprised.gif
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    Jul 08, 2011 9:22 PM GMT
    A whore is someone who has more sex than me, so no you are not a whore.

    Plus, I think whores get paid right? So you would actually be seeing if you were a slut.
  • Neurons

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    Jul 08, 2011 9:38 PM GMT
    Oh hey, we're from the same city.

    That wouldn't classify you as a slut, no. I feel you're just trying new things. It's a new experience for you.
  • Thegenuineart...

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    Jul 08, 2011 9:42 PM GMT
    Whoop fellow Londoner! I'm surprised I haven't met you you it seems the community here is pretty interconnected but you look normal so I'm assuming you shy away from that.


    Thanks for all your input guys, much appreciated.
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    Jul 08, 2011 9:44 PM GMT
    LondonCanuck saidWhoop fellow Londoner! I'm surprised I haven't met you you it seems the community here is pretty interconnected but you look normal so I'm assuming you shy away from that.


    Thanks for all your input guys, much appreciated.


    lol. First mistake I made about gay men is that "normal" gay men like me arent part of the scene.

    Just not true.
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    Jul 08, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    Yep, you're a dirty fucking whore and need to be punished.
    Now pull down your pants and bend over. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 08, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    Who cares what it makes you. If you decide to sleep with lots of people and it's not some undealt-with problem causing it, then go for it and be proud of it. As long as you're safe and it's not impacting you negatively mentally, enjoy and experience it!
  • Neurons

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    Jul 08, 2011 11:27 PM GMT
    LondonCanuck saidWhoop fellow Londoner! I'm surprised I haven't met you you it seems the community here is pretty interconnected but you look normal so I'm assuming you shy away from that.


    Thanks for all your input guys, much appreciated.


    Yeah, I'm not into the scene at all. Haven't even been to lavish lol. But you might've seen me around school if you still go to Fanshawe!
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 09, 2011 1:17 PM GMT
    A slut has sex with everyone.....A whore has sex with everyone but you. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 09, 2011 1:20 PM GMT
    lol no.
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    Jul 09, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    I still don't understand the "no sex thing." In my mind, if your uncovered junk touches any part of another man's body, that to me is gay sex. That aside, you alone can determine whether you've been a whore or a slut--no one else. That judgment should be reserved for you, and not for others. If you feel that you're not slutty or whorish, then why give a fuck about what others say or feel?
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    Jul 09, 2011 2:30 PM GMT
    No you're not a slut or a whore....

    In fact I posted about something similar.... The bottom line is that you're not a whore because whores ask for money in return...