He's so hot, it burns.

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    Jul 09, 2011 1:59 AM GMT
    This guy at my job is absolutely delicious. I think he is straight but he insists on talking to me all the time and taking his all of his breaks at the same time that I do. He talks about sex with girls constantly but he is always giving me random hugs and seeking me out to talk throughout the day. It never came up that I was gay but I intend to tell him eventually. I just don't want to scare him off if he is "questioning..." what should I do? icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 09, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    Sounds like almost every guy I work with. Enjoy it. He's comfy around you. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 09, 2011 2:18 AM GMT
    Straight guys give other guys random hugs?
  • JP85257

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    Jul 09, 2011 2:18 AM GMT
    Maybe he wants a mouth hug.
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    Jul 09, 2011 2:25 AM GMT
    dekiruman saidHe talks about sex with girls constantly but he is always giving me random hugs...


    You can report him for sexual harassment, ya know?

    dekiruman saidwhat should I do? icon_neutral.gif


    Whatever you do, please don't do his work for him instead of yours. icon_sad.gif

    I think you should just treat him like a normal straight friend. I know that when you are young, you get sucked into doing stuff that later on in life that you wish you didn't do. But it's okay, it's part of the growing pains.
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    Jul 09, 2011 2:28 AM GMT
    PowerFade saidStraight guys give other guys random hugs?
    I can count the US-born coworkers on one hand. The Latinos, Caribbeans, and various other cultures aren't afraid to hug guys...very affectionate guys once you get to know them. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 09, 2011 2:54 AM GMT
    Honestly, the more outward they are with their flirting, the less likely they are actually gay. Probably just feels comfortable around you. Now if he was covertly winking at you or you catch him gazing at you...or something...then it might be something. I'd keep it cool. Don't lie about your sexuality, but don't flaunt it either. You don't really strike me as feminine, so your gayness probably hasn't crossed his mind.

    Is this guy Asian? icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 09, 2011 2:58 AM GMT
    closer85 saidHonestly, the more outward they are with their flirting, the less likely they are actually gay. Probably just feels comfortable around you.


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    Jul 09, 2011 3:00 AM GMT
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    closer85 saidHonestly, the more outward they are with their flirting, the less likely they are actually gay. Probably just feels comfortable around you.


    debby+downer.jpg


    LOL, I'm sorry!!!

    Anyway, I want details. Exactly how hot is he?
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    Jul 09, 2011 3:05 AM GMT
    Straight man that's constantly touchy feely? Maybe he's handicapped...
  • htex24

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    Jul 10, 2011 1:17 AM GMT
    i think you should invite me him over for dinner and give me him tons of alcohol.
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    Jul 10, 2011 1:25 AM GMT
    you better be collecting money from him if you be putting out, hoe.
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    Jul 10, 2011 1:34 AM GMT
    Um, never start anything with a coworker regardless. Don't want it to be awkward for anyone. Keep the fine lines of Work and Personal life clear. icon_biggrin.gif
  • JP85257

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    Jul 10, 2011 1:35 AM GMT
    Dont fish off the company pier.
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    Jul 10, 2011 1:47 AM GMT
    I'd say enjoy the hugs he gives, but it probably doesn't mean he's gay. icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 10, 2011 1:52 AM GMT
    if he's already talked to you about girls than forget it.
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    Jul 10, 2011 1:53 AM GMT
    I think you fell into a burning ring of fire. It burns burns burns...
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    Jul 10, 2011 2:28 AM GMT
    PowerFade saidStraight guys give other guys random hugs?


    Yea wtf? We do butt slaps around here. Hugs are gay.
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    Jul 10, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    closer85 saidHonestly, the more outward they are with their flirting, the less likely they are actually gay.
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    That depends so much on the culture.
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    Jul 10, 2011 2:36 AM GMT
    dekiruman saidThis guy at my job is absolutely delicious. I think he is straight but he insists on talking to me all the time and taking his all of his breaks at the same time that I do. He talks about sex with girls constantly but he is always giving me random hugs and seeking me out to talk throughout the day. It never came up that I was gay but I intend to tell him eventually. I just don't want to scare him off if he is "questioning..." what should I do? icon_neutral.gif


    icon_eek.gif Hugs at work? Where are you working, in a hair saloon? icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 10, 2011 2:46 AM GMT
    JP85257 saidMaybe he wants a mouth hug.


    BAHAHAAH!
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    Jul 10, 2011 2:51 AM GMT
    what the hugs?!
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    Jul 10, 2011 2:53 AM GMT
    JP85257 saidDont fish off the company pier.


    On that note, don't dip your pen in the company inkwell.

    Oh, and don't be the company inkwell...
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    Jul 10, 2011 3:00 AM GMT
    You can try Jake's method and tell him he's cute. If he explodes in a fit of rage, he might be gay.
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    Jul 10, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    this just in....he also smells REALLY REALLY GOOD icon_biggrin.gif