Why am I sooo scared to have sexxx?????

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    Jul 10, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    Okkkk I think about sex 24/7 but I scared to really do it why is that?
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    Jul 10, 2011 1:17 PM GMT
    Chalk it up to stage fright. Are you hung enough? Yes you are. Are you tight enough? Yes you are. Will the first guy you get with think you're hot enough? If he didn't think that you wouldn't be hooking up. What if you don't know how to do something, or don't do it right? Practice makes perfect. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 10, 2011 3:38 PM GMT
    Is it the first time you've had sex? Do your family and friends openly discuss sex or devoutly religious? Are you questioning your abilities or afraid of letting someone that close to you in a vulnerable state? We need more info mate to help you out.
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    Jul 10, 2011 3:40 PM GMT
    Seriously... Just do it.

    I put it off for years and years(Bi here). One night, after flirting with a guy from CL for a couple weeks, I got home after a few drinks and called him up. He was so excited and I hopped in a taxi and headed over.

    I was SOOO nervous. I told him before it was my first time, but most guys don't believe that one! As soon as we got into the elevator he jumped all over me. I was so turned on and nervous at the same time.

    Got up to his condo and he basically ripped my clothes off(which was hot, but I was hoping he'd at least NOTICE the sexy underwear I wore) and we went to town. He was kinda large, so I was definitely nervous watching him put on the condom...

    The sex was so hot tho. I wouldn't trade it for anything. He left on business shortly after, and I met a girl and have been faithful to her since then. But I can't tell you how many times I've jerked off thinking about that night. It was about a year ago now, and he never responds to my emails. But I sure wish he would.

    Oh well... You've got to get out there and experience it!
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    Jul 12, 2011 6:27 AM GMT
    BaltBttm said It was about a year ago now, and he never responds to my emails. But I sure wish he would.
    Oh well... You've got to get out there and experience it!


    I can only imagine how hot the top guy was if he didn't want repeat performances with YOU, man. But this brings up something important for the OP to think about before he takes his maiden voyage. 'Men are dogs." It almost never happens that two guys are going to look back on a hookup the same way. Comparatively few of my entanglements have wound up the way I'd have liked. Either I'm over the moon or the other guy is. I learned a long time ago to cut my losses. And I've had to put up with some aggravation to get through to men who won't take no for an answer. "Never responding to e-mails" is sending a clear message. Continuing to send them, then finding nothing in your inbox, only annoys the recipient (who may have steered them all to his spam folder) and wastes your time. Chances are good that getting laid for the first time will be so awesome you think this means the dude you met is "the one." And chances are he won't share that feeling. That's life. When you send 27 texts and leave 16 voice mails and e-mail him another 30 times, all one-way communications, stop and think about what that means. Then move on. (Those numbers were for dramatic effect, don't go that far!)
    As far as "comparatively few of my entanglements" are concerned, those were HOT. I've had some fantastic fuck buddies and STR's. Sex and romance are like the lottery. You wind up empty-handed most of the time, but you can't win if you don't play. By the same token, be selective with your "first." If I could do it all over again I would've started my sex life with the FIFTH guy I got into the sack.
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    Jul 12, 2011 2:02 PM GMT
    Closetfreak saidOkkkk I think about sex 24/7 but I scared to really do it


    Me too!!!sadomasoquista.jpg
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    Jul 12, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
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    Closetfreak saidOkkkk I think about sex 24/7 but I scared to really do it


    Me too!!!sadomasoquista.jpg


    I think his name says more about this post than the actual contents. Closet Freak?

    Step one, get out of the closet. Step 2 stop thinking of yourself as a freak. Step 3 ???, Step 4 profit.
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    Jul 12, 2011 7:24 PM GMT
    Chainers saidStep one, get out of the closet. Step 2 stop thinking of yourself as a freak. Step 3 ???, Step 4 profit.
    ??? = Open a porn site. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 12, 2011 7:26 PM GMT
    STDs man, STDs. That's why.
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    Jul 12, 2011 7:32 PM GMT
    cityaznguy saidSTDs man, STDs. That's why.


    Condamns work my friend, they work.
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    Jul 12, 2011 7:40 PM GMT
    Closetfreak saidOkkkk I think about sex 24/7 but I scared to really do it why is that?


    You need to start drinking more...icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 12, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    cityaznguy saidSTDs man, STDs. That's why.


    Condamns work my friend, they work.


    What about mono? There are no condoms for that.
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    Jul 12, 2011 8:37 PM GMT
    cityaznguy said
    Chainers said
    cityaznguy saidSTDs man, STDs. That's why.


    Condamns work my friend, they work.


    What about mono? There are no condoms for that.


    Whatever you get it and your done, no biggie.

    man people, how you get laid is beyond me :-)
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    Jul 12, 2011 8:55 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    cityaznguy said
    Chainers said
    cityaznguy saidSTDs man, STDs. That's why.


    Condamns work my friend, they work.


    What about mono? There are no condoms for that.


    Whatever you get it and your done, no biggie.

    man people, how you get laid is beyond me :-)


    Who says I get laid? I am a total prude. I am a virgin. Actually I don't even know what I am doing in the sex and adult section of RJ. Oh my virgin eye, they burn, they burn mommy!! icon_razz.gificon_razz.gificon_razz.gif
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    Jul 12, 2011 8:58 PM GMT
    Go to a gay bar and get drunk, u will no longer have fear, cuz u'll be raped without knowing it
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    Jul 12, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    Well if u want to know why my profile name is closetfreak is cause I maybe a virgin but I know I can be a sexual freak in bed XD.... Btw closet freak is not someone whos on the closet its a lady in the streets but a freak in bed. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 12, 2011 9:08 PM GMT
    *was looking at the username and the relationship it had with the topic*


    Oh, my. You already addressed it here. icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 13, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    Closetfreak saidBtw closet freak is not someone whos on the closet its a lady in the streets but a freak in bed. icon_smile.gif


    I don't know what the hell this means.....
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    Jul 13, 2011 3:00 AM GMT
    JeremiahSmith said
    Closetfreak saidBtw closet freak is not someone whos on the closet its a lady in the streets but a freak in bed. icon_smile.gif


    I don't know what the hell this means.....



    When someone is out in public they behave normal to innocent maybe even naive, but when there behind closed doors in private they are a sexual freak in bed.