The identity formation period and how its not the same for all of us, all gay men are not created equal. That for some homosexuality is their total being, for others it's just another part of the puzzle that they are along with liking chocolate, or playing sports, or being a great writer, etc. No matter which fits for a person, all of it is good.
That society has convinced itself of certain stereotypes, like that we're all just sex hungry, good looking, clean, organized, fashionable, non athletic (except in sports like distance running, swimming and gymnastics) men.
That relationships (friendships, romantic) are complicated and can be even more complicated by homosexuality, but no matter what there are tons of people out there experiencing the same thing (or something similar); gay, straight, bisexual. You're not alone and that the most important and essential thing you can do is to build relationships that are meaningful and honest.