spaghettimonster saidJust as a preface my type as far as "search criteria" whether or not you can check a box or just judge based on the profile text is: relationship oriented, well-educated (at least a B.A. but preferably several more degrees above that,) polite, family-friendly, and near my age (22-30ish) ...
Plentyoffish - low quality and little diversity, mostly "hairdresser sorts"
Manhunt - nobody wants a relationship, and the ages represented are well north of my interest levels
Adam4Adam - nobody wants a relationship, and the ages represented are either way too young or way too old
OkCupid - some interesting friends have been made but no relationship material has ever developed from there
Cupidtino - absolutely nothing I am interested in there
Zoosk - trashy people, resembles adam4adam more than anything else
Grindr - what a joke
Scruff - what an even bigger joke than Grindr
Your mileage may vary.
just my thought, but what about people in real life? (something other than the bar)
My thoughts exactly.. I was reading a forum post about how some guy is out at a party right now wearing a colored shirt to match a theme. Cute idea for the party, but the men posting I feel are a bit hopeless. Why are people living their lives through a computer? Social networking is really putting a damper on our abilities to communicate.
I know for a fact someone is going to be rude and point the finger at me and say, "Why are you on here then?"
I do come on here, but not every minute of everyday.. This is just another resource, not a lifestyle for me. Really men, get out there and show everyone what you got, rather than living a fantasy behind a computer screen!!