Grindr weirdness

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    Jul 11, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    So I hit up this hot guy on grindr. He has only his face shot on it. He asked for my picture and i sent to him. Mine was a face + body pic. He then sent his body + face pic back (smoking hot btw). He said I was def good looking....then asked for a bunch of stats. Then he said he's not interested right now that he's tired. What gives? I really really want to have sex with his guy but I dunno if this is a rejection.....

    Your thoughts guys? I am kinda new to grindr so I have no idea t
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    Jul 12, 2011 6:57 AM GMT
    I hate it when some people initiated a connection then when you replied back to them and they bail out on you! icon_question.gif
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    Jul 12, 2011 12:54 PM GMT
    One possible idea: he might have been chatting with several guys and that he chose one guy to have sex with so he had to reject you? Since he's smoking hot, he has any picks right?

    Ain't life easy when you're beautiful (a bit of sarcasm/humor intended here).

    I used to have that app but I deleted it. It's really not a good way to have a conversation with someone, or even to hook up for that matter. I'd rather sit at a computer and log on chat so I can chat the old fashioned way instead.
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    Jul 12, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    Several possibiliities: (i) he's a "fake" and his profile and pics are not real; (ii) he had a number of choices and he chose someone else; (iii) he lost interest/lost his boner; (iv) he ran out of time; (v) the roomie/boyfriend/etc. came home unexpectedly; or (vi) he decided to just jerk off to your pictures rather than take the time to meet.
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    Jul 12, 2011 5:15 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidSeveral possibiliities: (i) he's a "fake" and his profile and pics are not real; (ii) he had a number of choices and he chose someone else; (iii) he lost interest/lost his boner; (iv) he ran out of time; (v) the roomie/boyfriend/etc. came home unexpectedly; or (vi) he decided to just jerk off to your pictures rather than take the time to meet.


    This! A lot of guys do this, and then save you for realz Sometimes guys are just bored and not in the mood. But they still want to see who is online.

    He replied with his bodyshot after seeing your pics. So that's a good sign. He could have just blocked you, right?
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    Jul 12, 2011 6:05 PM GMT
    waimea saidSo I hit up this hot guy on grindr. He has only his face shot on it. He asked for my picture and i sent to him. Mine was a face + body pic. He then sent his body + face pic back (smoking hot btw). He said I was def good looking....then asked for a bunch of stats. Then he said he's not interested right now that he's tired. What gives? I really really want to have sex with his guy but I dunno if this is a rejection.....

    Your thoughts guys? I am kinda new to grindr so I have no idea t
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    Pics of you or it didnt happen...
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    Jul 14, 2011 6:55 PM GMT
    ^^^ funny reply.
    Uh when i had Grindr, I think I was one of those guys... maybe he is searching for some kind of spark or something inside of him that says you have to meet this dude. Otherwise he may just be looking and conversing, then you reach that time where you are thinking and communicating we need to have sex now, and he's thinking oh not that, or maybe not yet... so he says "uh I'm tired though, maybe some other time".