Why are some gay men so hateful and Fucking ugly inside @!??

  • MrNomis

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    Jul 12, 2011 3:44 AM GMT
    so i don't get it.. we as a gay community should be more supportive of each other and stand up for each other whenever there is someone discriminating towards your sexual preference, etc. instead gays are hating on gays more than a homophobic individual. Who gives anyone the right to judge, physically, or verbally abuse another gay man or woman? I seriously do not understand
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    Jul 12, 2011 4:01 AM GMT
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    Jul 12, 2011 4:07 AM GMT
    Well, gay men are human. That's the simple answer.
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    Jul 12, 2011 4:07 AM GMT
    Sadly.. many gay men together are a bit like a bunch of girls when it comes to being catty and backbiting.
    They only feel Up when putting the competition down. It's usually related to insecurity.
    Sad we feel the need to compete like women when we it comes to basic conversation.The older I get.. the easier it is to tune out.
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    Jul 12, 2011 4:36 AM GMT

    Humans are as awful as society lets them get away with. The reason gay men can be so horrible is because there are legions of us with no self-respect who let them walk all over us and let them get away with it. It's almost as much fault in the nicers as the meaners.
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    Jul 12, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
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    Jul 12, 2011 4:40 AM GMT
    MrNomis saidWho gives anyone the right to judge, physically, or verbally abuse another gay man or woman?
    I do. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 12, 2011 4:44 AM GMT
    The issue isn't with gay men, honey. It with human beings. There's every type of gay guy that you can imagine. Being gay doesn't automatically make you a tolerant, bleeding heart liberal who just wants world fucking peace.

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    Jul 12, 2011 4:47 AM GMT
    TheGuyInDubai saidSadly.. many gay men together are a bit like a bunch of girls when it comes to being catty and backbiting.
    They only feel Up when putting the competition down. It's usually related to insecurity.
    Sad we feel the need to compete like women when we it comes to basic conversation.The older I get.. the easier it is to tune out.


    I'm so old...it literally has no volume what so ever.

  • MrNomis

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    Jul 12, 2011 11:58 AM GMT
    i just don't understand it at all.. i've walked away from so many "friends" because i felt i was in an episode of mean girls... it is ridiculous...i also realize it is human nature but dang!!!
    i agree gay men are more insecure and feel the need to compete for attention and all that...
    i just thought since we are in 2011 and past the years where a gay man or woman had to hide who they really were we would act more civilized as human beings.
    **oh well i suppose certain "gays" have to live up to their stereotypes/reputation.
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    Jul 12, 2011 12:40 PM GMT
    The important part is that you've found a way to feel superior to them without using blatantly offensive words. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 12, 2011 12:40 PM GMT
    I always guessed that it's because they can't get past having been treated badly themselves.
    I've met some gay guys who are so pissed off that thier first reaction is to lash out in defense whether the situation warrents that reaction or not. I don't think being pissed off comes out of nowhere though, some of these guys have been hurt pretty badly. I went to school with a guy who was so physically and emotionally abused by his classmates for being effeminate that he will probably never know any semblence of happiness in his life. The adults that he went to about his problem felt that it was his responsibility to "man up" and they washed thier hands of the situation.
    There are some nasty guys out there and some in these forums too. I can't know what they went trough to get that way so I try to be tolerant, but I also avoid any kind of interaction with them.
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    Jul 12, 2011 12:45 PM GMT
    Keeping adhering to your principles and do the right thing. I've always thought just because everyone is doing it, doesn't make it right.

    To quote the Cranberries: "Everyone else is doing it, so why can't we?"
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    Jul 12, 2011 3:12 PM GMT
    Because they have very low self-esteem and heightened persecution complex, and are lonely and miserable, so they take the piss out of each other.
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    Jul 12, 2011 9:38 PM GMT
    MrNomis said
    **oh well i suppose certain "gays" have to live up to their stereotypes/reputation.


    Sometimes when its all you got, you have to hold onto it with everything you have.

    I always find it sad when other gay guys find the need to be so cruel to one another. Typically, guys that find themselves needing to judge or rate a crowd of guys at a bar just because they want to put others down to lift themselves up become invisible to me. Sometimes it makes me wonder what happened to them in their lives to end up like that but really in the end, its just juvenile.

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    Jul 12, 2011 9:39 PM GMT
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    Jul 12, 2011 10:16 PM GMT
    same people are just rotten people, gay or straight makes no difference. Fortunatly, they are a smal lminority of humankind.
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    Jul 13, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    jawrhed said I don't think being pissed off comes out of nowhere though, some of these guys have been hurt pretty badly. I went to school with a guy who was so physically and emotionally abused by his classmates for being effeminate that he will probably never know any semblence of happiness in his life.


    I wasn't abused more than the average loser kid, but I was a super defensive bitch in high school. I was ALWAYS wearing armor and was always preparing vicious words to fire into someone if they disrespected me. I can't speak for your friend, but I did a complete 180 a year later and learned that true strength is being able to show your enemies your weakness and still hold it together. It could happen to him too.
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    Jul 14, 2011 12:00 AM GMT
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    jawrhed said I don't think being pissed off comes out of nowhere though, some of these guys have been hurt pretty badly. I went to school with a guy who was so physically and emotionally abused by his classmates for being effeminate that he will probably never know any semblence of happiness in his life.


    I wasn't abused more than the average loser kid, but I was a super defensive bitch in high school. I was ALWAYS wearing armor and was always preparing vicious words to fire into someone if they disrespected me. I can't speak for your friend, but I did a complete 180 a year later and learned that true strength is being able to show your enemies your weakness and still hold it together. It could happen to him too.


    trust me it has made me a better person/man as a result of me walking away from the toxic.. it is still a little frustrating because i always see the glass half full and well i know there is good in all of us and i also understand some people just have a chip on their shoulders..
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    Jul 14, 2011 12:07 AM GMT
    MrNomis saidWhy are some gay men so hateful and Fucking ugly inside @!??


    MrNomis saidbecause i always see the glass half full


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    MrNomis saidWhy are some gay men so hateful and Fucking ugly inside @!??
    MrNomis saidbecause i always see the glass half full
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    It seems like people think we're either fucking anything that moves, or that we're totally antisocial. Maybe they just don't like us because we're not straight..icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 17, 2016 11:06 PM GMT
    Just because we are all gay doesn't mean we have to be supportive of everything every gay person wants to do. If not giving support is seen as hateful well then so be it. No one has the right to be physically or verbally abusive; however, not agreeing with someone is not being abusive.