porn in a relationship

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    Apr 22, 2008 1:08 PM GMT
    my bf and I are not usually big porn watchers. We both have said we dont care if the other watches it, but it hasnt been a priority for us.

    I found a porn dvd in his player the other day. I asked him if we could watch it together and he refused. Said it was a private thing for him and he never wanted to watch it with me.

    I thought it would be cool to watch it together.

    Is this the same as in a straight relationship where even if the guy is having great sex he still wants to watch porn and get off sometimes?

    I dont understand why we cant watch it together?

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    Apr 22, 2008 1:14 PM GMT
    Ooooo...maybe it shows a kinky side of him that he doesnt want to reveal to you! .... icon_eek.gif

    Personally, I just like the first few minutes ...or even seconds on some ....I want to see how they get the two guys together .....the 20 minutes of effing I can do without.

    (uh oh....count down)
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    Apr 24, 2008 6:31 AM GMT
    I like good porn sometimes - but I prefer it done well with good sound. If you're with the right guy - you can both get into it - and I'll bet within a few minutes you end up ignoring it or turning it off - while you get into your own festivities!
  • GQjock

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    Apr 24, 2008 10:58 AM GMT
    This very samething happened with me and one of my BF's

    He wanted us to watch it together
    For me if I'm with a guy everything else is a distraction
    and takes away from the experience of being with THAT MAN

    and I'm assuming that your BF feels the same way
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 24, 2008 12:04 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidI like good porn sometimes - but I prefer it done well with good sound.




    That I can believe......
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    Apr 24, 2008 1:26 PM GMT
    i find porn embarrassing, not enhancing, when i'm with someone else. porn is what it is. i can take it or leave it; however, usually when someone wants to watch it with me i get all stuttery and awkward. dunno why.
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    Apr 24, 2008 2:50 PM GMT
    I occasionally watch porn by myself. I don't think I would want to watch it with my partner. We have different taste in men for one thing. I usually find I press the fast forward button a lot when watching it because it gets kind of boring.