Are you envious of a more well-hung partner?

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    Jul 13, 2011 10:33 AM GMT
    ...or do you just enjoy it?

    I was thinking, this is something unique to gay sex, in that we have the same equipment but it might not be quite 'the same'.

    Have you ever been with a guy and felt insecure that you were the 'smaller' guy, or did were you turned on...perhaps it made no difference?

    If you're the bigger guy, have you ever had someone complain that they felt inadequate compared to you?
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    Jul 13, 2011 10:47 AM GMT
    no on both accounts, I've been with guys who are bigger then me and smaller. None of them have every complained, although one guy did get a little self conscious about being smaller then me but once we got going he forgot all about it and hoed down hahaha.



    Everyone is built a little different, I prefer to embrace it rather then be upset or concerned about it
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    Jul 13, 2011 11:17 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidEveryone is built a little different, I prefer to embrace it rather then be upset or concerned about it


    I agree, though I've never experienced it myself so I'm not sure how I would actually feel!
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    Jul 13, 2011 12:01 PM GMT
    a big dick is like the italian/british sports cars of the 1960's that i desired for SO many years: objects of lust, envy and admiration, delightfull to look at, fondle and take for an occassional ride, but a pain in the ass to deal with on a daily basis.



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    Jul 13, 2011 12:02 PM GMT
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    lilTanker saidEveryone is built a little different, I prefer to embrace it rather then be upset or concerned about it


    I agree, though I've never experienced it myself so I'm not sure how I would actually feel!

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    Jul 13, 2011 12:46 PM GMT
    Are you envious of a more well-hung partner?

    No, since I've never met a guy hung bigger than me. (Although once I did meet my exact dick double, same size soft and hard, except he was uncut while I'm cut. We had some great docking fun. icon_biggrin.gif )

    But I've encountered some big guys, and I found it more a problem than something to be envied. It was difficult to give them a good BJ without making my jaw ache, and bottoming with them was out of the question for me.

    Eye-candy is nice, but under the sheets I prefer something a bit more practical. And as for my own size, it's more a curse than a benefit. Few guys will let me top them, and neither can they give me a decent BJ. Nor, with the single exception of the guy I mentioned above, could I dock with them, or have a good double JO.

    And then there's the Speedo problem, when I could still wear those. You're too big to entirely fit behind the privacy liner, and it looks like you've got a constant hard-on. And other guys wonder if you're semi-hard in the gang shower, getting aroused by seeing them naked, and so therefore queer. I WAS queer, but I didn't want to advertise it.

    No, if I saw a guy hung like me or better I would pity him, not envy him.
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    Jul 13, 2011 12:51 PM GMT
    No, because he won't get to use it anyway. icon_lol.gifPlus I'm not exactly a petite size...icon_redface.gif



    Art_Deco saidIt was difficult to give them a good BJ without making my jaw ache, and bottoming with them was out of the question for me.
    I think so too. Big cocks are more for sluts, er...I mean, experienced studs. Normal guys like me who don't hookup often would be terrified and dunno what to do with them icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 13, 2011 12:55 PM GMT
    rnch saida big dick is like the italian/british sports cars of the 1960's that i desired for SO many years: objects of lust, envy and admiration, delightfull to look at, fondle and take for an occassional ride, but a pain in the ass to deal with on a daily basis.

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    Totally missing the point of the thread - it doesn't have to be a 'big dick' to be bigger, after all. 3" is bigger than 2" but a 3" dick isn't considered big.
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    Jul 13, 2011 12:57 PM GMT
    Pure said...Totally missing the point of the thread - it doesn't have to be a 'big dick' to be bigger, after all. 3" is bigger than 2" but a 3" dick isn't considered big.




    i'll admit to "totally missing the point" of THIS reply...




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    Jul 13, 2011 1:11 PM GMT
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    Pure said...Totally missing the point of the thread - it doesn't have to be a 'big dick' to be bigger, after all. 3" is bigger than 2" but a 3" dick isn't considered big.


    i'll admit to "totally missing the point" of THIS reply...

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    What I mean is, your answer was more about the fantasy versus reality of a bigger dick whereas I was talking about the comparison and how it makes you/your partner feel.
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    Jul 13, 2011 1:19 PM GMT
    rnch saida big dick is like the italian/british sports cars of the 1960's that i desired for SO many years: objects of lust, envy and admiration, delightfull to look at, fondle and take for an occassional ride, but a pain in the ass to deal with on a daily basis.

    WHY did you have to remind me that I wanted a red Ferrari GTO (before Pontiac stole that designation), or a British Morgan or Aston Martin in the 1960s? My parents refused to buy me such a car, and they controlled my money. (Which is why I got an after-school job, to at least afford to buy myself a motorcycle) In my adult years I've had other priorities that came first, and today I'm poor. icon_sad.gif

    If either of us ever gets that Italian or British sports car, can we agree to give the other a ride in it? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 13, 2011 1:30 PM GMT
    I've always been the one of the pair with either the way smaller or somewhat smaller weener....I'm just used to it...I have been booted out of the room a couple of times by internet hook ups, who were disappointed that I wasn't bigger...
    Since it's been this way for ages, I'm used to it...however, just once it would be fun to be the bigger one...just to see what that's like...

    Ugh...okay, now everyone knows icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 13, 2011 1:40 PM GMT
    Pure said...What I mean is, your answer was more about the fantasy versus reality of a bigger dick whereas I was talking about the comparison and how it makes you/your partner feel.



    Pure, i have experienced both big items(automotive and anatomical), several times, on a daily basis, for a couple of months at a time, until i got tired of dealing with both big items.

    my initial comments come from my "Real World" experience with both items.

    the British are supposed to be skilled with the wry, dry sense of humor....


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    Jul 13, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said...If either of us ever gets that Italian or British sports car, can we agree to give the other a ride in it? icon_biggrin.gif


    when still living at home, with much more discretionary spending money that i have now, i sampled: a jaguar e-type convertible, a jaguar xj6 saloon, fiat 124 spyder, fiat x19 convertible, mgb roadster, triumph tr6 convertible, jensen-healy convertible, and (briefly) a "thomas magnum" lookalike ferrari.

    my comments at the top of this thread apply to ALL of the above listed cars.

    although all "fun" cars (when they started and ran properly), i kept my attractive, flashy, gas mileage challenged, Maytag reliable, American made, freezing cold factory air-conditioned Buick Riviera as a "back up" car. the Riv oulasted ALL the above cars!
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    Jul 13, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    oaktownguy saidI have been booted out of the room a couple of times by internet hook ups, who were disappointed that I wasn't bigger...


    That's pretty appalling, I'm sorry you had to experience that!
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    Jul 13, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    I've been with smaller and larger and to be totally honest, it's never mattered. I figure if we are going to go as far as get naked and have sex your going to take me for what I am.
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    Jul 13, 2011 3:11 PM GMT
    Pure said...or do you just enjoy it?

    I was thinking, this is something unique to gay sex, in that we have the same equipment but it might not be quite 'the same'.

    Have you ever been with a guy and felt insecure that you were the 'smaller' guy, or did were you turned on...perhaps it made no difference?

    If you're the bigger guy, have you ever had someone complain that they felt inadequate compared to you?



    i am seldon "the bigger guy".

    however, that also has it's advantages.

    my long term bf, usually the top, loves to climb on top of my barely average sized penis and "ride the reverse cowboy", saying that i am the only guy he has felt comfortable doing this with.


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    rnch saidmy long term bf, usually the top, loves to climb on top of my barely average sized penis and "ride the reverse cowboy", saying that i am the only guy he has felt comfortable doing this with.

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    I expect it's the perfect size to rub his prostate juuuuuuuuuust right! After all, the prostate isn't 9 inches in.
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    Jul 13, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
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    rnch saidmy long term bf, usually the top, loves to climb on top of my barely average sized penis and "ride the reverse cowboy", saying that i am the only guy he has felt comfortable doing this with.

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    I expect it's the perfect size to rub his prostate juuuuuuuuuust right! After all, the prostate isn't 9 inches in.




    yes, it does seem to work well for him!



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    Jul 13, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    JeremiahSmith saidI've been with smaller and larger and to be totally honest, it's never mattered. I figure if we are going to go as far as get naked and have sex your going to take me for what I am.


    Yup. I've generally been the bigger, thought not hugely so, but with the exception of one boyfriend, I've never been with someone who's size was a problem.

    My current boyfriend of a millions years has the Goldilocks of penises: Just right.
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    Jul 13, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    Christian73 saidMy current boyfriend of a millions years has the Goldilocks of penises: Just right.


    Goldicocks?

    I hope that doesn't mean it eats all your porridge and sleeps in your bed!
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    Christian73 saidMy current boyfriend of a millions years has the Goldilocks of penises: Just right.


    Goldicocks?

    I hope that doesn't mean it eats all your porridge and sleeps in your bed!


    Or that the encompassing pubes are long enough to be used as a make-shift multi-story rope ladder... icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 13, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
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    Christian73 saidMy current boyfriend of a millions years has the Goldilocks of penises: Just right.
    Goldicocks?

    I hope that doesn't mean it eats all your porridge and sleeps in your bed!


    Why would sleeping in his bed be a bad thing?
    For the same reasons already spelled out, I've never had size envy issues either. My goods are just about exactly "average" from what I've seen and experienced. Some guys have a thimble or a pencil that you have to part the pubes to see. icon_rolleyes.gif Others have appendages which make even your jaws hurt to just look at. Then most fall into the mid-range, as I do: 5-7 inches long and 2-3 inches in diameter.
    Envy the horse-hung? Not on your life. I like dipping the wick into a partner who wants to bottom, and having him buck and quiver with delight while being ridden. Getting ready for the next round of action with aching wood only to be told "no way, it's too big" would NOT be fun. But it has been a good time to be presented with a challenge to my deepthroating skills and be able to deliver. (Often the guys are shocked that I'm actually gulping down all the way to the base, heh heh. Only a few have been too damn long or thick for even oral.) The lightly equipped are actually at an advantage, since a more compact set of nerve endings means more sensation. When you put your mouth to work on a small-hung dude it's inevitable that he goes wild.
    I think we all can agree, though, that the men to really envy are the UNCUT.
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    Jul 14, 2011 7:17 AM GMT
    no I am not.... because I am a top so it doesn't matter. I don't really care if the bottom has a tiny dick or a big dick... it won't affect my sexual pleasure.
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    Jul 14, 2011 8:30 AM GMT
    MuslNorganLikr saidI think we all can agree, though, that the men to really envy are the UNCUT.


    Really? Why? I'm uncut and never felt it was anything particularly enviable.