What is this thing you call date? It both angers and confuses me!

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    Jul 13, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    Why is it so hard for me to find a mid-30s gym rat fuck buddy to screw around with once a week in San Francisco...

    Pity me guys...

    (im bored)
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    Jul 13, 2011 11:34 PM GMT
    You and me both.


    Thanks to this xbox360, I'm not having a life. icon_surprised.gif
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    Jul 13, 2011 11:40 PM GMT
    Because the idea of a fuck buddy (emphasis on buddy) probably is too intimate for all the queens in SF, NYC and DC.

    Lucky us!
  • Vaughn

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    Jul 13, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    The worst is when you realize your special friend actually likes you. If you were special friends for a long time, you can't just write them off. That's when dating happens.
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    Jul 14, 2011 12:23 AM GMT
    I just want a guy... The one I liked I scared away... icon_sad.gif
  • davemancheste...

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    Jul 14, 2011 12:24 AM GMT
    I'd love a fuck buddy
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Jul 14, 2011 12:30 AM GMT
    Every fuck buddy I find is 'married' which, frankly, complicates things in a way I don't want.

    I can feel my resolve weakening.

    It would be nice...but...ehhhnnn.
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    Jul 14, 2011 12:31 AM GMT
    Fuck buddies and friends with benefits almost ALWAYS fall in love with you (or you with them) and it's not reciprocated. Which ruins it.

    Or, and this happened to me, they suddenly find Jesus, marry a fat girl and make a baby...only to hit you up a year later for a return to past fun! icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 14, 2011 12:34 AM GMT
    Why did this thing about dating suddenly turn into a thing about fuck buddies?
  • MarvelClimber

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    Jul 14, 2011 12:36 AM GMT
    RunintheCity saidFuck buddies and friends with benefits almost ALWAYS fall in love with you (or you with them) and it's not reciprocated. Which ruins it.

    Or, and this happened to me, they suddenly find Jesus, marry a fat girl and make a baby...only to hit you up a year later for a return to past fun! icon_eek.gif


    sneaking around makes it more fun icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 14, 2011 12:58 AM GMT
    CHIdude saidWhy did this thing about dating suddenly turn into a thing about fuck buddies?


    It's never been about dating...
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    Jul 14, 2011 2:05 AM GMT
    Dates! HAH!

    Friend with benefits!?
    HAH!!!


    *creates an AC-like emo thread since both of the above have continued to fail*
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    Jul 14, 2011 2:08 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    CHIdude saidWhy did this thing about dating suddenly turn into a thing about fuck buddies?


    It's never been about dating...


    Chainers you and I need to get laid icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 14, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    The thing is that I'm not really looking for a hookup. Sex is important, but there should be much more, right?
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    Jul 14, 2011 2:10 AM GMT
    ^^^ Oh, damn! I should have quoted "more than this, you know there's something, more than this, tell me one thing..."
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    Jul 14, 2011 3:54 AM GMT
    Do not touch me there!
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    Jul 14, 2011 6:07 PM GMT
    CHIdude said
    Chainers said
    CHIdude saidWhy did this thing about dating suddenly turn into a thing about fuck buddies?


    It's never been about dating...


    Chainers you and I need to get laid icon_sad.gif


    hmmm

    ....

    thnxs

    hugs

    (shameless bump)
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    Jul 14, 2011 6:21 PM GMT
    CHIdude saidWhy did this thing about dating suddenly turn into a thing about fuck buddies?


    It is an anti-dating thread. Chainers is lamenting his unreciprocated sluttiness; although, wouldn't a true slut be content with one-off encounters? I mean, regular sex with the same person is a relationship, whichever way you cut it.
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    Jul 14, 2011 6:22 PM GMT
    Mil8 said
    CHIdude saidWhy did this thing about dating suddenly turn into a thing about fuck buddies?


    It is an anti-dating thread. Chainers is lamenting his unreciprocated sluttiness; though wouldn't a true slut be content with one-off encounters. I mean, regular sex with the same person is a relationship, whichever way you cut it.


    It is, I rarely do one off encounters, and when I do I always tell people that anal/oral sex is only in the picture if we meet more than once (I just jerk off with them).

    I just want a buddy to sleep with once a week, is that too much to ask?
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    Jul 14, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    Finding a fuck buddy is so much easier than a date.


    Fuck buddies I have had - 3ish
    Dates had - 0


    And after u realize fuck buddies are overrated u will just be on a4a manhunt, grindr for lolz


    But if this topic is serious go on one of those sites, fuck someone in ur area and text them 5 days later. Instant fuck buddy, at least that worked for me. Or before u leave ask if they wanna meet again.



    In my book as long as ur using a condom slut around all u want
  • Hothouse

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    Jul 14, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    If you can't find a fuck-bud in SF - then there's no hope for the rest of us.

    I'm up for a good fuck-bud, but I've given up on finding one quite honestly.
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    Jul 14, 2011 6:43 PM GMT
    wolverinecub86 saidFinding a fuck buddy is so much easier than a date.


    Fuck buddies I have had - 3ish
    Dates had - 0


    And after u realize fuck buddies are overrated u will just be on a4a manhunt, grindr for lolz


    But if this topic is serious go on one of those sites, fuck someone in ur area and text them 5 days later. Instant fuck buddy, at least that worked for me. Or before u leave ask if they wanna meet again.



    In my book as long as ur using a condom slut around all u want


    Thats the thing, I have had more dates than fuck buddies.

    Here in SF the idea of a buddy you fuck has too much emotional attachment for many gay men. Like most of them lol.
  • Hothouse

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    Jul 14, 2011 6:48 PM GMT
    Gay men are flakes.
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    Jul 15, 2011 7:13 PM GMT
    we should start a club....in the same boat here in SF
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    Jul 15, 2011 11:09 PM GMT
    i don't like having a fuck buddy, about 3 visits in i'm either out of there or want to date them.