RJ Member justsam

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    Apr 23, 2008 4:37 AM GMT
    Does anyone have news on RealJock member justsam? At least two of us here on RealJock who were buddies of his received RJ messages from him on Monday night (the 21st of April) that have us a little concerned about his well being.

    He seems to have removed his profile, but if you're trying to remember who he is (he was quite new to RJ), he is 22 years old and lives in Ann Arbor, Michigan. If you have any news on him, or if you, too, received messages from him on Monday night that have you concerned about him, please reply here or else directly to me. Ultimately I'd just like to know that he's okay. Thanks.


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    Apr 23, 2008 8:25 AM GMT
    Was he verified?
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    Apr 23, 2008 11:33 AM GMT
    Sedative14 saidWas he verified?


    He wasn't.
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    Apr 23, 2008 2:46 PM GMT
    Yeah, I'm not sure what that has to with anything, but no, he was not verified. He was only on for a couple of weeks, but it seems he was in contact with a lot of us while he was. So no one else heard from him on Monday?


  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 23, 2008 3:45 PM GMT
    Things like this always bother me a great deal. I hadn't had any conversation with him, but my question is, did he tell you his real name? If so, you have an avenue to search and check up on him. Was he out?
    If so, others in Ann Arbor may know him in the gay community. I'd be tempted to contact some gay support services, give the description he gave on RJ and explain your concern.
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    Apr 23, 2008 4:34 PM GMT
    Actually, no, he seemed to be just beginning the process of accepting himself. But I don't think it's my place to say much about his situation; I'm just hoping others have heard from him... and if you have, well, some of his realjock buddies are looking for some peace of mind. Thanks.

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    Apr 24, 2008 1:02 AM GMT
    Hey guys, I just want to put this out there again tonight. Thank you.

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    Apr 25, 2008 10:02 PM GMT
    I thought I might mention, for the benefit of anyone else who was concerned, that Sam is okay. But dammit, it sure is frustrating to see anyone tormented over his or her sexuality. If I had kids, I'd be telling them early on that I don't care if they're gay or straight. I'd love them no matter what. But that's just me, I guess.

    sigh


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    Apr 25, 2008 10:42 PM GMT
    I heard from him once, seemed to be having a hard time, never heard back from him, which is sad, he seemed like a hot young kid with potential. I hope he's doing okay.
  • GQjock

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    Apr 26, 2008 4:35 AM GMT
    Glad to hear that this young guy is alright at least for now
    ... and I'm really glad to see everybody's concern for him

    It's really tuff sometimes to come to terms with being gay ... I hope that justsam and everyone else out there
    gets a chance to see that
    instead of falling prey to all the negative false images that are out there