Don't you guys just wish

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    Jul 15, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    That you could find a hot guy and just instantly become boyfriends? Skip the bullshit that comes with dating, and kissing a million frogs to get to a prince. Skip the same script you go over every time you meet a person (Ex: So when did you come out? Where are you from, etc.) Skip the not being sure if they like you or not, or if you should wait an hour or two before you respond to their text to seem like you have a life when you're actually not doing anything at the moment.

    I wish I could skip all of that and just cuddle on the couch with someone while watching Texas Chainsaw Massacre. Instant relationships FTW. The only problem is finding someone as crazy as I am lol.
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    Jul 15, 2011 12:46 AM GMT
    That sounds lazy, worthless, and just as shallow.
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    Jul 15, 2011 12:47 AM GMT
    That would be nice. I wish there was a red "easy" button to press like in that moronic Staples advertisement.

    But there also is something to seeing someone in a variety of contexts over a period of a long enough time so you know he is not a complete psychopath that just happens to be cute.
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    Jul 15, 2011 12:49 AM GMT
    spaghettimonster saidBut there also is something to seeing someone in a variety of contexts over a period of a long enough time so you know he is not a complete psychopath that just happens to be cute.

    But those psychopaths man, they can be absolutely WILD in the sack.. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 15, 2011 12:49 AM GMT
    Chaa_xwvn saidThat sounds lazy, worthless, and just as shallow.


    Call it whatever you want, but I've "gotten to know" a lot of guys in my area and I just don't think its worth my time. There's a lot of stress involved lol
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    Jul 15, 2011 12:50 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    spaghettimonster saidBut there also is something to seeing someone in a variety of contexts over a period of a long enough time so you know he is not a complete psychopath that just happens to be cute.

    But those psychopaths man, they can be absolutely WILD in the sack.. icon_biggrin.gif


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    Jul 15, 2011 2:12 AM GMT
    Just a remix:

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    Jul 15, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    The more boys I meet
    The more I love my dog.
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:27 AM GMT
    I've had two relationships where we just fell in head over heels, in lust, is what I'll call it now. It's a nice idea but two weeks, two months, or two YEARS (you don't know someone until you live with them) in my case all that new love shit fades away and you're left with someone that you really don't like and in fact harbor an inordinate amount of contempt for once that veil of excuses you've woven for them starts to fall down and you learn WHO they really are...

    Maybe its part of growing up, but I'd advise anyone to do a read-through of this particular life lesson and skip it for someone worthy of your love. Don't settle. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:46 AM GMT
    Don't you guys just wish

    ...That you could find a hot guy and just instantly become boyfriends?


    Would it spoil your day to tell you how many times that is EXACTLY what happened to me? And twice they became my partners on sight? (The first one tragically dying, or we'd still be together, the second one now at 4 years together)

    I guess miracles do happen, because they've happened to me several times. The rough times, too, like my first partner dying in my arms, or relationships not working out after a couple of years. And you have to move on, and look again.

    But finding boyfriends? That's easy. It's finding keepers that's a bit more tricky, but even that isn't so difficult if you know what you're doing.
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidThe more boys I meet
    The more I love my dog.


    Maybe I should look into getting a canineplasty. Imagine all the hot guys whose laps I can jump on and faces I can lick.
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    Jul 15, 2011 4:06 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidThe more boys I meet
    The more I love my dog.
    arf.......
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    Jul 15, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    What does QFT mean????

    I honestly don't think I could settle down right now even if I found someone amazingly compatible with me. I'm far too in love with my career. But theoretically, I'm too curious to just experience one person. I need excitement!
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    Jul 15, 2011 4:55 AM GMT
    thingsthativedone saidI wish I could skip all of that and just cuddle on the couch with someone while watching Texas Chainsaw Massacre. Instant relationships FTW. The only problem is finding someone as crazy as I am lol.
    Get a Realdoll. Then you can be as crazy as you want to be.
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    Jul 15, 2011 5:20 AM GMT
    closer85 saidWhat does QFT mean????

    I honestly don't think I could settle down right now even if I found someone amazingly compatible with me. I'm far too in love with my career. But theoretically, I'm too curious to just experience one person. I need excitement!


    QFT = Quoted for Truth
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    Jul 15, 2011 5:24 AM GMT
    kinda takes the fun out of it
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    Jul 15, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    The journey is part of the fun, and will help me appreciate the guy that I'll end up with more
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    Jul 15, 2011 6:41 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidThe more boys I meet
    The more I love my dog.

    It's a toss up. Both the guys and my dogs want to lick my face and jump in my lap. icon_lol.gif
    Now if only I could find a guy who can carry on a conversation better than my dogs
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    Jul 16, 2011 8:54 PM GMT
    Um no. You see, all those things you mentioned are what make the journey and adventure of the relationship fun. Because you get to know the person even more and vice versa. So to answer your question, Hell no, I wouldn't want an instant relationship.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 16, 2011 9:00 PM GMT
    Nah......I kinda enjoy being single and dating.....so many hot college guys in Vegas. icon_cool.gif