Why fucking bother?

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    Jul 15, 2011 12:45 PM GMT
    Go out on the town, have a healthy $25 salad to feel good about yourself but spend all that money on something that you don't even want to actually eat. Than it happens, the model gays walk in. 6' foot athletic. perfect teethed, with the amazing hairlines and chiseled jawlines walk in. Seriously, if they were straight it's no so bothering. But if these guys exist what chance do I have in the gay community. Oh bother. Don't you just hate it? It literally kills me! Knowing that these guys are so attractive, that they could satisfy my partner, or even any guy I could ever have better than me just by their pure looks. Fucking kills me.
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    Jul 15, 2011 12:47 PM GMT
    There will always be someone bigger and better than you. The same can be said about everyone on this site, and every man on the planet except for 1. And that man is Chuck Norris. So until any of us can compete with Chuck, we're stuck with his sloppy seconds.
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    Jul 15, 2011 12:49 PM GMT
    If I spent all my time worrying about what other guys look like, I'd never get laid by guys who appreciate what I look like.
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    Jul 15, 2011 12:50 PM GMT
    so much wrong with this post.

    (1) don´t eat stuff you hate

    (2) don´t be deceived by the pretty ones. Most of them are vain cunts who spend their lives competing with their bitchy frenemies until they die of an overdose or put on 200lb in 6 months then live in a trailer for the rest of their lives before being arrested for shop lifting.

    (3) Maybe there are people who prefer your quirky mixture of characteristics to some stupid model boy.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    None of us are perfect, some flaws are less visible than others. Still, we all have the ability to be steadfast in striving towards 'our best', physically and otherwise, in every way imaginable.

    Don't limit yourself.

    Make the sacrifices necessary to become exactly who you want to be, and do it for your own satisfaction and self-worth.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:10 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf I spent all my time worrying about what other guys look like, I'd never get laid by guys who appreciate what I look like.


    Exactly!!!
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:11 PM GMT
    You can't demand something you're not offering yourself. Be the change
    If you simply are, you let others be and don't need external validation. Don't be envious. Become the one you want to attract.

    Furthermore attraction does not just have a single dimension. It is not just a great physique. A beautiful mind is far superior to a sculpted body in my opinion. The body is a vessel. How the vessel gets perceived is up to you and how much time and effort you put in it. It is still a vessel though.

    Why bother? Because you obviously care.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:16 PM GMT
    Yeah, but for me. I don't know. Like I wish I could look like that for my partner. Like I can say I don't care what my partner looks like. I'll love him no matter what. Which is true, and I wouldn't change him. But I know if I had the choice. Yes I'd prefer him to look like a model. Even without the choice I don't care. But deep down that's all I feel. So while he's with me he'll never have that, and as stupid as it is it makes me feel guilty. I don't know, just kills me so much! Like, why do they get to be sooo attractive? And I'm grateful for what I have I guess. But I'm talking about the eye catching attractive guys. You spot them n u can't take your eyes off. They just know everyone they meet is going home to jack off to them.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:18 PM GMT
    I'm not talking about different attractive, not personality attraction. Not confidence attraction. Just pure hotness. Seeing the one guy that you can't take your eyes off. The ones that you'd kill to touch. Those are the ones I hate! It's so unfair icon_sad.gif Especially when they flirt with your partner. Urghhh. I hate it.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:20 PM GMT
    You have a mind which is the most powerful tool for changing into what you desire. Stop being so defeatist. Slap yourself out of it. If you REALLY want to be stunning looking, find out exactly how to make it happen.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:26 PM GMT
    Five Words and I say it with the best interestat heart






    GET THE FUCK OVER IT



    Life is too short to pay any attention to them. Models have a short shelf life and once they are in their mid thirties and forties, most of them would have been spent, due to hard partying and what not.


    Live a prosperous life, for yourself, not others.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:43 PM GMT
    No matter how gorgeous and built he is, someone somewhere is sick of his shit.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:47 PM GMT
    First, why are you paying 25 dollars on a salad? Get some chicken or tuna or something if you are going to spend that much.
    Second, like everyone has said, personality is a lot more important than looks once you get to know someone. If I were your partner, I would bitch slap you for saying that I would rather have eye candy than you. He chose you didn't he?
    Third, if you are so insecure about being smaller than these guys, just work to change that. Work on getting bigger and leaner, and then YOU will be the guy that walks in and others are worried will take their boyfriends.
    Last, even if you can't work on getting bigger, work on getting more confident. There is nothing more sexy than a confident man, and it doesn't matter how chiseled his jawline is.
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    Jul 15, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    Renegade67 saidNo matter how gorgeous and built he is, someone somewhere is sick of his shit.


    This statement should be on the RJ home page.

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    Jul 15, 2011 2:00 PM GMT
    Truth be told, life is unfair.

    What you are feeling is normal, if a bit extreme (depends on how often you think it and what you do with those thoughts). I think everyone at some point or another thinks something similar.

    Bottom line: Figure out how not to let it get to you.

    Note, none of the major religions/spiritual paths say you have to be hot to be happy... it's just our material world/culture that says that.
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidFive Words and I say it with the best interestat heart






    GET THE FUCK OVER IT



    Life is too short to pay any attention to them. Models have a short shelf life and once they are in their mid thirties and forties, most of them would have been spent, due to hard partying and what not.


    Live a prosperous life, for yourself, not others.
    That's only true of runway/fashion models.
    Fitness, Commercial, and Parts models can last upward into their 60's. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:16 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidso much wrong with this post.

    (1) don´t eat stuff you hate

    (2) don´t be deceived by the pretty ones. Most of them are vain cunts who spend their lives competing with their bitchy frenemies until they die of an overdose or put on 200lb in 6 months then live in a trailer for the rest of their lives before being arrested for shop lifting.

    (3) Maybe there are people who prefer your quirky mixture of characteristics to some stupid model boy.

    Damn you just nailed it in the head!



    _SAGE_ saidYou have a mind which is the most powerful tool for changing into what you desire. Stop being so defeatist. Slap yourself out of it. If you REALLY want to be stunning looking, find out exactly how to make it happen.

    This. But make sure that's still in line with who you really are, and just a better version of yourself icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    Renegade67 saidNo matter how gorgeous and built he is, someone somewhere is sick of his shit.


    this - and get some therapy
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Fitness, Commercial, and Parts models can last upward into their 60's. icon_wink.gif


    That's why I said 'MOST' and not all of them Paulie Waulie icon_smile.gif

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    Jul 15, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    Looks aren't everything


    Ever see a porn where there's a really hot guy who just doesn't know how to fuck? Lol sex isn't everything either but just wanted to give a pervy example
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:26 PM GMT
    wolverinecub86 saidLooks aren't everything


    Ever see a porn where there's a really hot guy who just doesn't know how to fuck? Lol sex isn't everything either but just wanted to give a pervy example
    Yes, looks are everything.


    Ever see a porn where there's NOT a hot guy? Sex is everything, too...and so is butter...and bacon...and chocolate.
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:27 PM GMT
    Kristoff saidGo out on the town, have a healthy $25 salad to feel good about yourself but spend all that money on something that you don't even want to actually eat. Than it happens, the model gays walk in. 6' foot athletic. perfect teethed, with the amazing hairlines and chiseled jawlines walk in. Seriously, if they were straight it's no so bothering. But if these guys exist what chance do I have in the gay community. Oh bother. Don't you just hate it? It literally kills me! Knowing that these guys are so attractive, that they could satisfy my partner, or even any guy I could ever have better than me just by their pure looks. Fucking kills me.



    Ugh! Yet another one of your "Woe is me" whiner threads feeling sorry for yourself. You really need to seek some sort of professional counseling because it would appear you spend a great deal of your waking hours obsessing about what you are not, rather than counting your blessings to all that you do have. How about you try this exercise and then reassess. Take a walk down a busy street in your area and take a toll of the people who, at least physically, you would want to switch places with. You might be quite surprised how few you see. Buddy, life can suck for anyone -- young, old, gorgeous, not so gorgeous, ripped, fat, rich, poor, tall, short, white, non-white, male, female, straight, gay -- it doesn't really matter. Life is what you make it. You have to play with the cards you are dealt and, trust me, NOBODY is dealt a perfect hand. Everyone's life comes with some challenges. The important thing is taking what you have and doing the very best you can with it. There are basically two choices --- work with what you've got and feel blessed because that "Walk down the street" I assure you will reveal several who have a whole lot less than you, OR you can spend every day of your life obsessing about what you are not and wallowing in misery hour after hour day after day.
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:34 PM GMT
    Be the best man you can be and f*ck what other people think. ;)
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    Jul 15, 2011 2:35 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    wolverinecub86 saidLooks aren't everything


    Ever see a porn where there's a really hot guy who just doesn't know how to fuck? Lol sex isn't everything either but just wanted to give a pervy example
    Yes, looks are everything.


    Ever see a porn where there's NOT a hot guy? Sex is everything, too...and so is butter...and bacon...and chocolate.


    I mean cmon butter and chocolate pale in comparison to Bacon : P


    And tru, I like porn with hot guys so I guess my previous comment is a little silly. But still isn't it a turn off when u see a porn with hot guys, click on it and see a dude sucking cock like its gonna bite. I mean cmon, u can take more than 2 inches in ur mouth before gagging. Or even worse are the tops that fuck mechanicly in 1 slow rhythm the whole time.


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    Jul 15, 2011 2:35 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    wolverinecub86 saidEver see a porn where there's NOT a hot guy? Sex is everything, too...and so is butter...and bacon...and chocolate.


    Anything involving Ron Jeremy. Eeeegh.

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