A thread to check out before voting MOTD today (Friday) ....

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    Jul 15, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    It is lengthy, but provides very good insight into some folks:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1598547/

    This relevant only for the voting on Friday, July 15.
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    Jul 15, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    I pick the guy who represents a real jock- gotta be fit
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    Jul 15, 2011 6:25 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidI pick the guy who represents a real jock- gotta be fit

    Agree completely. But whether or not others agree, should still consider forum behavior and character.
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    Jul 15, 2011 7:23 PM GMT
    socalfitness saidIt is lengthy, but provides very good insight into some folks:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1598547/




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    Jul 15, 2011 8:24 PM GMT
    I understand that you do not like Chainers, but this is just sad.
    I had hope you would take the high road and attempt to bury the hatchet.



    Oh well, guess I'll put some blood on it.


    Your opinion more often than not is holier-than-thou. It's abrasive to the point where most people I discuss forum topics with refuse to give you a proper response because they know it's not worth it. Also, you went around from thread to thread insulting him. As vindictive as one can be, it's still deplorable.

    I'm going to suggest you take a step back from this and try to discuss this via message instead of your normal public spectical. It seems like there was a miscommunication and then name calling, from both sides. You don't have to respect each others thoughts all the time, however, I would hope you, saying you're the more mature one, would do something to stop the madness instead of release more chaos.
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    Jul 15, 2011 8:43 PM GMT
    TrevorMark saidI understand that you do not like Chainers, but this is just sad.
    I had hope you would take the high road and attempt to bury the hatchet.



    Oh well, guess I'll put some blood on it.


    Your opinion more often than not is holier-than-thou. It's abrasive to the point where most people I discuss forum topics with refuse to give you a proper response because they know it's not worth it. Also, you went around from thread to thread insulting him. As vindictive as one can be, it's still deplorable.

    I'm going to suggest you take a step back from this and try to discuss this via message instead of your normal public spectical. It seems like there was a miscommunication and then name calling, from both sides. You don't have to respect each others thoughts all the time, however, I would hope you, saying you're the more mature one, would do something to stop the madness instead of release more chaos.

    Sorry but you have your facts wrong. First I have no grudge, just no respect. Second, he is the one who has followed me around, making nasty age-related comments. I don't recall if I ever responded, but the last one I saw I did ignore. And BTW - most people who do respond to my messages do provide a "proper response", though in the political threads that may not always apply. I have also made a point to not comment in any of the recent threads where he has continued to belittle another member.

    One last comment - my point here was not to bring up any specifics, but I did want to respond to your incorrect facts. I made a point to say nothing specific in the OP. I just preferred to point folks to the thread and let them make their own conclusions.
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    Jul 15, 2011 9:00 PM GMT
    Again, my facts are somehow incorrect when the proof is in the postings.

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    Like I mentioned, holier-than-thou.


    And yes, this thread is about how you can't leave things alone, even if you don't like a guy. So, a minor grudge.




    I hate to tell you, but I can read and have seen your ongoing feud. He's now just trolling you because of all you've said, which isn't right, but if neither of you are going to be adult about something, why continue to drag it out? Because you want to "prove a point" or "be right" in some way? Point proven, you don't even have enough respect for yourself to not make an ass out of yourself in the same post as you try to bring another person down. And for what? An online one-day-of-glory which will never actually benefit anything other than his ego.


    Bravo. It's childish, and you know it.
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    Jul 15, 2011 10:01 PM GMT

    I would like to point something out. It's true that "ac2394" was probably a few bricks short...BUT the "person of interest" here is a well known bully.

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    Jul 15, 2011 10:25 PM GMT
    Green_Panda saidI usually complain about any 'motd' thread I see, pro or con. But I have to agree that today's leader really surprises me. This guy is one of the most venomous on rj to me.


    I was going to stay out of this thread, but Panda, I have no idea who you are, or why you dislike me. Some people in this thread (op) I know dislike me, but you and friendsrbetter I dont think I have ever interacted with...

    Edit: I dont know why all this hate is coming out, I didnt even ask to be MoTD, I asked for everyone to vote for Charlitos, and everyone ignored me and voted for me, so seriously get over it!
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    Jul 15, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    Green_Panda said
    Chainers said
    Green_Panda saidI usually complain about any 'motd' thread I see, pro or con. But I have to agree that today's leader really surprises me. This guy is one of the most venomous on rj to me.


    I was going to stay out of this thread, but Panda, I have no idea who you are, or why you dislike me. Some people in this thread (op) I know dislike me, but you and friendsrbetter I dont think I have ever interacted with...

    Edit: I dont know why all this hate is coming out, I didnt even ask to be MoTD, I asked for everyone to vote for Charlitos, and everyone ignored me and voted for me, so seriously get over it!

    You just seem really bitter to guys. You say 'you're joking' but some of the stuff you say to people is unbelievably mean spirited. It's 'bull in a china shop' behavior on the forums and I don't think everyone is getting the joke. So I'm surprised that you're at the top for motd. But I don't know what people are voting 'for' sometimes when they vote for some guys for motd. I don't know what you're like in real life but you just don't come off as very pleasant on here to me. You make good points sometimes but they come at the expense of some one else fairly often. Maybe soften up a bit?


    Never!

    There is no point in posting anything of logic or reason on these forums, it all goes to waste. The last time I posted something logical to someone and backed up my argument with facts all I got in return was "Great, I will see if my side can come up with something, now I will block you." so I might as well have some fun. I think people are just taking the internet way to seriously, and have ignored the times I blatently insult myself. Yea, I insult myself because it is funny, not mean spirited. People on realjock need to grow thicker skin, this is the internet and my posts are generally tame compared to other forums.

    Grow up, move on with your life, and be a little more mature about all of this.
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    Jul 15, 2011 10:49 PM GMT
    Its just a popularity contest for the days "it" dude.

    No need to be serious.


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    Jul 15, 2011 11:10 PM GMT
    Chainers saidI didnt even ask to be MoTD... I asked for everyone to vote for Charlitos, and everyone ignored me and voted for me, so seriously get over it!

    Oh really?!?......seriously???.... I'm really disappointed!, so give me back my precious vote! "what a waste of time!"Smiley
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    Jul 15, 2011 11:20 PM GMT
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    Chainers saidI didnt even ask to be MoTD... I asked for everyone to vote for Charlitos, and everyone ignored me and voted for me, so seriously get over it!

    Oh really?!?......seriously???.... I'm really disappointed!, so give me back my precious vote! "what a waste of time!"icon_neutral.gif


    Bwaaah! I cant make anyone happy can I?
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    Jul 16, 2011 12:04 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    Philip_ said
    Chainers saidI didnt even ask to be MoTD... I asked for everyone to vote for Charlitos, and everyone ignored me and voted for me, so seriously get over it!

    Oh really?!?......seriously???.... I'm really disappointed!, so give me back my precious vote! "what a waste of time!"icon_neutral.gif


    Bwaaah! I cant make anyone happy can I?


    I'm pretty happy. lol
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    Jul 16, 2011 12:06 AM GMT
    I voted for him.
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    Jul 16, 2011 1:58 AM GMT
    Green_Panda saidSo as long as everyone else changes to suit you, everything will be fine but you have no intention of changing a bit. It really doesn't sound like motd material to me. And it seems to back up what a couple of people are saying.

    It's your life, live it as you wish. But understand you will be judged by your words and actions.

    Pretty good summation.
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    Jul 16, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
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    Green_Panda saidSo as long as everyone else changes to suit you, everything will be fine but you have no intention of changing a bit. It really doesn't sound like motd material to me. And it seems to back up what a couple of people are saying.

    It's your life, live it as you wish. But understand you will be judged by your words and actions.

    Pretty good summation.


    Yes, because you are fundamentally right and I am fundamentally wrong.

    Haters gonna hate, you just be hating because Im popular.

    Done.
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    Jul 16, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    socalfitness said
    Green_Panda saidSo as long as everyone else changes to suit you, everything will be fine but you have no intention of changing a bit. It really doesn't sound like motd material to me. And it seems to back up what a couple of people are saying.

    It's your life, live it as you wish. But understand you will be judged by your words and actions.

    Pretty good summation.

    Yes, because you are fundamentally right and I am fundamentally wrong.

    Haters gonna hate, you just be hating because Im popular.

    Done.

    It's your behavior, not your "popularity". You claim you are just joking, but it is a very thin excuse. And in the thread that I cited, when others joined in and criticized your behavior and your meanness, the jokes ended. You asked "Why is everyone picking on me? What did I do wrong?" You can dish it out, but you can't take it.

    A few of the good-looking, well-built guys you look up to happen to be friends of mine. They are not aware and it's not my nature to tell them about your dark side, unless they see it in a thread like this one. I happened to be talking with one of them and we were discussing RJ in general. Without mentioning your name, I told him about how you like to torment another. He was completely put off by that. You may get the MOTD because most guys have not seen the threads and don't know about you, but eventually they will, and I doubt your popularity will remain. But in the meantime, you have yourself to live with, which is probably the biggest punishment.
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    socalfitness said
    Chainers said
    socalfitness said
    Green_Panda saidSo as long as everyone else changes to suit you, everything will be fine but you have no intention of changing a bit. It really doesn't sound like motd material to me. And it seems to back up what a couple of people are saying.

    It's your life, live it as you wish. But understand you will be judged by your words and actions.

    Pretty good summation.

    Yes, because you are fundamentally right and I am fundamentally wrong.

    Haters gonna hate, you just be hating because Im popular.

    Done.

    It's your behavior, not your "popularity". You claim you are just joking, but it is a very thin excuse. And in the thread that I cited, when others joined in and criticized your behavior and your meanness, the jokes ended. You asked "Why is everyone picking on me? What did I do wrong?" You can dish it out, but you can't take it.

    A few of the good-looking, well-built guys you look up to happen to be friends of mine. They are not aware and it's not my nature to tell them about your dark side, unless they see it in a thread like this one. I happened to be talking with one of them and we were discussing RJ in general. Without mentioning your name, I told him about how you like to torment another. He was completely put off by that. You may get the MOTD because most guys have not seen the threads and don't know about you, but eventually they will, and I doubt your popularity will remain. But in the meantime, you have yourself to live with, which is probably the biggest punishment.


    Everyone has seen the thread, its not like its one big giant secret.

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    P.S. my friend thinks this is hilarious. You're an idiot.
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    Jul 16, 2011 4:06 AM GMT
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    Jul 16, 2011 4:27 AM GMT

    Don't you just love it when "snidely bitches" think they can say whatever they want and if they say it was just a joke, they expect absolution.....icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 16, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    staples_jockey saidAh...to put this "popularity" in perspective, it was 48 to 44 last time I checked. So 24 people think you're popular enough to become motd. Out of all of rj's thousands of members. So gloat all you want. You're just proving that motd is a joke when someone like you wins (especially over someone like mad91601, the guy at 44 votes).

    (But since you did win it, I actually do hope you enjoy your day. I'm not actually trying to take that away from you.)


    I only had 70 and my front runners were in their 60's for votes. I was mainly endorsed by forum users. What does that say for me? icon_razz.gif


    I italicized your last statement because it's how this should be done. Instead of the catty bullshit it should just be like, "I don't like him, but I have enough decency to wish him well."
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    Jul 16, 2011 4:31 AM GMT
    Methinks MOTD should be taken with a very large boulder that happens to be made of salt.

    It's not like you get a sash and a crown, or even 15 minutes of airtime on the LOGO channel for getting it.

    IMHO, testimonials are as good if not better of a barometer of a RealJocker's impact on the RJ community.
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    Jul 16, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    alphatrigger saidMethinks MOTD should be taken with a very large boulder that happens to be made of salt.

    It's not like you get a sash and a crown, or even 15 minutes of airtime on the LOGO channel for getting it.

    IMHO, testimonials are as good if not better of a barometer of a RealJocker's impact on the RJ community.

    Yup. Completely agree. Although a lot of hot guys have them when they've done absolutely nothing. So even that should have a tread careful sign.
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    Jul 16, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    alphatrigger saidMethinks MOTD should be taken with a very large boulder that happens to be made of salt.

    It's not like you get a sash and a crown, or even 15 minutes of airtime on the LOGO channel for getting it.

    IMHO, testimonials are as good if not better of a barometer of a RealJocker's impact on the RJ community.


    I heard you get a tiara and a secret decoder ring.