if you are interested in someone you met a few times, how do you behave in front of him?

  • itiscool

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    Jul 15, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    If you like someone in your gym, got his name, and he said hi and briefly chat with you everything time you see him for a couple times now, what would you do? Would you behave differently when you see him? Examples, lingering look in his eyes, calling him by his name every time? checking him out from afar, cracking jokes to impress him? Avoiding to appear too desperate by staying away from him intentionally ? Just wondering what are the telltale signs of one person interested in another in a gym after they know a little bit about each other.
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    Jul 15, 2011 7:02 PM GMT
    I act so nervous.
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    Jul 15, 2011 7:02 PM GMT
    confidence is sexy..try it
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    Jul 15, 2011 8:51 PM GMT
    I would be the same person that I was when we were having a casual conversation, anything else is too much work and fake. I would just be me, if he couldn't accept me for who I am then "kick rocks"!

    I'm pretty funny, and silly. But when I'm at the gym, I have tunnel vision and I'm totally focused on my workout b/c I want it over!
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    Jul 15, 2011 9:18 PM GMT
    Like a man
  • jasen202

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    Jul 15, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    Same here. I'm between a rock and a hard place.

    The guy comes to me, I get all nervous and become immobile so I loose him.

    If I see him, I can't go to him or else I will appear desperate. Both are bad, how do I get myself out of both stalemate situations?

    What probably needs to happen is all the nervous gay guys gather to do a fuuck fest to rid of their nervousness.
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    Jul 15, 2011 9:47 PM GMT
    Behave normally? Putting up a fake front won't get ya far
  • mybud

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    Jul 15, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    I'll call him by name.......If I knew a funny joke...would tell it....I'd act like a man....you know the things you don't have the nuts to pull off......
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    Jul 15, 2011 10:13 PM GMT
    The degree to which I let my normally totally irreverent self show depends on how much I've had to drink.

    And anyone who says they don't put their best foot forward when they first meet someone is a liar.

    Patrick
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    Jul 16, 2011 1:31 AM GMT
    Edward22 saidLike a man



    This.
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    Jul 16, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    sometimes i get nervous, but i'm good at appearing confident.

    there was only guy to ever make me weak in the knees...and even then, i don't think he knew how into him i was.
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    Jul 16, 2011 3:14 AM GMT
    I offer to spot him on chest, then when asks for the spot, I hold the bar against his chest and tell him he's not getting up till he agrees to sushi and sex after the workout.
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    Jul 16, 2011 3:16 AM GMT
    watch what i do...


    ...do the opposite.
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    Jul 16, 2011 3:50 AM GMT
    Just walk up behind him and... GLOMPH! TACKLE HUG. icon_rolleyes.gificon_twisted.gif

    WHICH IS WHY I'M SINGLE! icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 16, 2011 9:54 AM GMT
    Grab his balls, so he will notice your attraction to him.

    I do that all the time. Actually I think is the reason I don't have teeth.