I am having a small crush on someone here on the site.....

  • GettingFitter

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    Apr 23, 2008 11:06 AM GMT
    Should I keep it to myself or tell him ? icon_eek.gificon_redface.gif
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    Apr 23, 2008 11:07 AM GMT
    I've got a crush on everybody on this site. icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 23, 2008 11:40 AM GMT
    yeah...this is gonna be a busy place if we all start gushing our crushes.

    My crushes are on Shawn, Zdrew, and Moudi...they be fine examples of sexy masculinity! Oh, and I found another good looking guy on here. But he's older and shy. ... icon_wink.gif

    Oh yes, excuse me...this isn't about me, is it? (I guess after 3000+ postings I just see these forums as my bitch...hahahahahahah) .....So back to GettingFitter...I wouldnt blurt it out to him. Show some finesse...work him up to it, so he will be receptive to it.
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    Apr 23, 2008 11:41 AM GMT
    I think you should tell him... what's the worst thing that can happen? icon_smile.gif
  • Timbales

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    Apr 23, 2008 11:42 AM GMT
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    Apr 23, 2008 11:51 AM GMT
    The best thing about being online is that it makes communicating alot easier because you have the safety of being behind a computer so i say that u go for it and tell him...whats the point of liking someone if u can't find out if they like u back. If the do then good if not then hey...at least u know.
  • GettingFitter

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    Apr 23, 2008 11:59 AM GMT
    I'm just sort of kicking myself for getting a small crush on this guy because one, I only ever talked to him through IM here a couple of times, he is WAY out of my league to being with and three, it is based more so on his pics and I hardly even know the dude. It's really embarrassing icon_redface.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 23, 2008 12:02 PM GMT
    I think if approached the right way, most guys would respond reasonably. I don't think there is any issue with talking to them about it.
  • momewrath

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    Apr 23, 2008 12:53 PM GMT
    It's ok. You can go ahead and tell me. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 23, 2008 1:01 PM GMT
    I have not developed any crushes because I am in a happy relationship with a guy, but if I was single, oh boy would I be a mess emotionally!

    So many smart, funny and sexy gay and bisexual men. Who would have thunk it on a website called "RealJock".

    If the guy you have a crush on is single then I don't think there is anything wrong with letting him know. Who knows it could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
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    Apr 23, 2008 2:28 PM GMT
    Crushes are harmless and should be seen by all affected parties as such. It's as simple as the crusher saying something like "I think you're the hottest guy on this site." and the crushed upon responds, "Thank you very much - you just made my day!" The conversation will either continue or it won't.
  • ShawnTX

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    Apr 23, 2008 2:30 PM GMT
    Um...it's less important that he knows and more important that we know.
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    Apr 23, 2008 2:43 PM GMT
    Tell him!

    Its no secret that zdrew and I have mutual crushes on each other... and it's turned into a friendship were we talk on a regualr basis!
  • kinetic

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    Apr 23, 2008 2:46 PM GMT
    ShawnTO saidUm...it's less important that he knows and more important that we know.

    LOL!!
  • MattyC0709

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    Apr 23, 2008 2:48 PM GMT
    Sedative14 saidI've got a crush on everybody on this site. icon_redface.gif

    Er... me too? icon_eek.gif

    Anyway, best to tell him I guess, it's not like he can punch you from wherever he is, he'd just break his computer screen!

    Lol! icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif
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    Apr 23, 2008 2:54 PM GMT
    No crushes, here. Just a lot of lust and envy. icon_twisted.gif
  • jarhead5536

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    Apr 23, 2008 3:18 PM GMT
    My Lord if I was single, I would have fallen in love with at least four guys here! You guys are all such amazing people...
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    Apr 23, 2008 3:23 PM GMT
    ShawnTO saidUm...it's less important that he knows and more important that we know.


    I agree with Shawn, Plus by telling us you are in effect telling him and your problem is solved.

    Now, how do I tell the hot guy I saw last night that I want to have his babies or die trying? lol.
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    Apr 23, 2008 4:05 PM GMT
    Pass him a note in study hall but don't get caught by the monitor or it will be totally embarrassing and you might get detention.

    ....Oh where is John Hughes when we need him.


    Seriously though, if your secure enough to accept a rejection if it happens (regardless of the reason), then say something, otherwise, keep it to yourself until you are.

    I guess the issue is to think it through.
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    Apr 23, 2008 4:09 PM GMT
    spryte21 said[quote][cite]ShawnTO said[/cite]Um...it's less important that he knows and more important that we know.


    I agree with Shawn, Plus by telling us you are in effect telling him and your problem is solved.

    Now, how do I tell the hot guy I saw last night that I want to have his babies or die trying? lol.[/quote]

    Send him a drawing of a pregnant cupid? I am thinking outside the box here guys.
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    Apr 23, 2008 4:10 PM GMT
    ruck_us saidNo crushes, here. Just a lot of lust and envy. icon_twisted.gif


    That works as well, especially the lust part icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 23, 2008 4:52 PM GMT
    GettingFitter saidShould I keep it to myself or tell him ? icon_eek.gificon_redface.gif


    Nothing ventured, nothing gained
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Apr 23, 2008 4:55 PM GMT
    GettingFitter saidShould I keep it to myself or tell him ? icon_eek.gificon_redface.gif




    pssssst...tell us...we can keep a secret icon_rolleyes.gif
  • JohnDallas

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    Apr 23, 2008 5:01 PM GMT
    If you went to the point of starting a forum discussion about the subject obviously you like the guy enough to tell him. No harm done regardless of how he reacts. Just tell him and see what happens. Oh...and then let us know.
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    Apr 23, 2008 5:02 PM GMT

    Is he a pictureless too? icon_neutral.gif