Help coming out to a gay "friend"

  • youngerguy

    Posts: 7

    Jul 16, 2011 7:31 PM GMT
    So, I'm 18 year old bi guy. Virgin, never ben kissed (guy or girl). And I'm totally in the closet.

    I'm starting college now in August far from home and am currently Facebook friends with a few of my future classmates. One of them is gay. We haven't chatted or met, we jst argue through comments wen I post a political link or status (I'm a libertarian, he's liberal).

    And I figure, he knows the city I'm moving to a lot better, and since he's better with the 'gay scene' than I am, I thought I should tell him I'm bi.

    I want to tell him before school starts, so maybe FB chat?

    How would I go about doing this? Is it a good idea? I wanna start getting involved in the gay/bi community and feel tht he might help.

  • swimmer8671

    Posts: 429

    Jul 17, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    yeah do it, honestly he wouldn't react badly obviously cuz he himself is gay. Just tell him over face book chat and talk to him about going clubbing or something to do with the gay scene when you get to college.
  • LJay

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    Jul 17, 2011 1:47 AM GMT
    Just write him privately.
  • SFGeoNinja

    Posts: 510

    Jul 17, 2011 1:52 AM GMT
    If all goes well, hopefully you won't need to use quotation marks on this "friend" anymore!
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    Jul 17, 2011 2:03 AM GMT
    It only counts if you sex him, date him, and move in with him, all in the same day.