What puts you off during , before or after sex? (as in small things)

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    Jul 17, 2011 7:35 PM GMT
    The thing that really puts me off before sex is guys who brush right before sex or the coffee/tea breath.
    During sex it is not getting the right response of kissing
    after sex it is the running to wash room the moment you are done.
    What about you guys?
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    Jul 17, 2011 7:39 PM GMT
    a small thing always puts me off before, during, and after
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    Jul 17, 2011 8:22 PM GMT
    di0nysus saidThe thing that really puts me off before sex is guys who brush right before sex or the coffee/tea breath.
    Maybe I can help with the brushing issue by putting out this PSA. Oral sex, which is normally a low-risk behavior suddenly goes code orange or code red if brushing causes bleeding. If you know you are going to be kissing someone or using your mouth for other activities, brush hours before or chew some gum.
  • BlackBeltGuy

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    Jul 17, 2011 8:23 PM GMT
    I hate cigarette, coffee breath. serious turn off.
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    Jul 17, 2011 8:27 PM GMT
    nabob7729 said
    di0nysus saidThe thing that really puts me off before sex is guys who brush right before sex or the coffee/tea breath.
    Maybe I can help with the brushing issue by putting out this PSA. Oral sex, which is normally a low-risk behavior suddenly goes code orange or code red if brushing causes bleeding. If you know you are going to be kissing someone or using your mouth for other activities, brush hours before or chew some gum.


    One thing you need to be aware of is its not white and black, if your brushing hard and cause excessive bleeding gums yes, but if its just a bit, its riskier but its not a do or die situation.
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    Jul 17, 2011 10:49 PM GMT
    Dirty bunghole.
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    Jul 17, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    A bad kisser!
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    Jul 17, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidDirty bunghole.


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    Jul 17, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    BOOGERS!!!!

    ALWAYS TURN ME OFF!!
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Jul 17, 2011 11:03 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidPizza breath. The last date I had I got really sick and had a slice of pizza right before and blew chunks everywhere. Now, pizza makes me nauseous. I'll eat it, but I get really sick when a guy's breath tastes/smells like pizza.


    Don't you hate it when that happens??

    Bet you won't go out with him again!
  • Parker817

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    Jul 17, 2011 11:11 PM GMT
    Apologizing for bodily noises, during or after...definitely off-putting.

    It's ok, it happens. And you know what, I probably didn't notice or don't care. But apologizing and drawing attention to it totally sucks the the hotness out of the moment...
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    Jul 17, 2011 11:18 PM GMT
    I hate when my bf (or anyone when I was single) & I are getting into it and he says I'm hot. Makes me feel insecure.
  • 1man

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    Jul 17, 2011 11:20 PM GMT
    When someone says someone else's name. icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 17, 2011 11:22 PM GMT
    limpness............
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    Jul 17, 2011 11:29 PM GMT
    body odor... the " I pulled this shirt out of the dirty clothes" stale bo stank
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    Jul 17, 2011 11:35 PM GMT
    I don't really like much speaking during sex, particularly dirty talk. Seriously? Is it really necessary to narrate?

    It's about the physical interaction and intimacy for me. Stuff like, "Let's move *insert place here*" is fine, but beyond that, all I want to hear is breathing and incidental noise... icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 17, 2011 11:43 PM GMT
    smell of funk of any sort.
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    Jul 18, 2011 8:49 AM GMT
    Mitchhhhh said
    nabob7729 said
    di0nysus saidThe thing that really puts me off before sex is guys who brush right before sex or the coffee/tea breath.
    Maybe I can help with the brushing issue by putting out this PSA. Oral sex, which is normally a low-risk behavior suddenly goes code orange or code red if brushing causes bleeding. If you know you are going to be kissing someone or using your mouth for other activities, brush hours before or chew some gum.


    One thing you need to be aware of is its not white and black, if your brushing hard and cause excessive bleeding gums yes, but if its just a bit, its riskier but its not a do or die situation.


    I still think chewing gum is a much better option than brushing due to mildness of flavors and these issues as well. After all when I am with someone I want to feel them, not Crest or Colgate. I can easily do that at home.
  • CincyBOJ

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    Jul 18, 2011 9:17 AM GMT
    texting, or answering the phone
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    Jul 18, 2011 9:34 AM GMT
    where r u guys meeting these slobs?

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    Jul 18, 2011 12:16 PM GMT
    If they don't wanna cuddle afterwards, if they don't like to talk dirty, if they don't look me in the eye at least for a minute (ROFL!!!!) when fucking me!
  • rnch

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    Jul 18, 2011 12:29 PM GMT
    1. poor personal hygiene. it doesn't matter HOW good you look...if your breath, arm pits, twig & berries and ass crack smells...you're not attractive anymore.


    2. guys who get off before you do and then don't want to help YOU get off.
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    Jul 18, 2011 1:08 PM GMT
    rnch said 2. guys who get off before you do and then don't want to help YOU get off.

    I <3 you man for saying this icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 18, 2011 1:30 PM GMT
    Deodorant (I mean wearing it. It tastes disgusting, and ruins their underarm smell that turns me on so much), poppers, peeling off a guy's shirt only to find that he's shaved his chest (even worse, chest stubble from a previous shave), finding out they're a bad kisser, and finding out they didn't "prepare" themselves before wanting to bottom.
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    Jul 18, 2011 1:32 PM GMT
    TheHottestTwink saidIf they don't wanna cuddle afterwards

    Amen!