How many Fuckbuddies can you handle?

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    Jul 18, 2011 12:03 AM GMT
    Would you prefer just one.....or enough for a baseball team?

    Just talked with a guy, my age-54, who is happily partnered and claims that he and partner have sex 3 times a week.

    But he likes extra so he has 4 or 5 other fuckbuddies he describes as Regulars!!!!!!!!

    NOTE: If you're not getting laid it's because he's using the entire supply of free sex out there.

    So back to question: One? or More in your perfect world?

    And if you've had the experience already, please share how things worked out.

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    Jul 18, 2011 4:09 AM GMT
    Can you ask to your friend if he can spare at least one???

    I don't even have one, lol, so lame.
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    Jul 18, 2011 1:12 PM GMT
    I'll take 2 baseball teams, please...

    Variety is the spice of life. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 18, 2011 1:32 PM GMT
    I had a couple of fuckbuddies in the past but maximum of 2 within a particular period as it was more a case of sex being available when I really had to have it as opposed to several times during a week.

    Conveniently/confusingly they had the same name too.
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    Jul 18, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    Pyrotech saidI'll take 2 baseball teams, please...

    Variety is the spice of life. icon_twisted.gif


    IF each of your partners has his own team of steady players....and each of them...

    Well, you've potentially got a very large number of guys passing around Cold/Flu bugs....at the least.

    IN THEORY that is. My best friend in SF is a Free-Range Lover and he's played safely enough to avoid HIV. However, he does say he's gotten almost the full variety of other pass-along bugs, from herpes to amoebic intestinal crap.

    Granted, Life is not about living in some Purell Bubble.....but at what point is LOTS of partners, too many-----for your own risk-taking?
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    Jul 18, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    I've had as many as five "regulars" as well, but people move away too often, so now I'm back down to one and a half (half = lives out of state and vacay's here frequently).
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    Jul 18, 2011 5:46 PM GMT
    A battalion willl do, although a brigade is preferable.
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    Jul 18, 2011 6:32 PM GMT
    PresentMind saidIN THEORY that is. My best friend in SF is a Free-Range Lover and he's played safely enough to avoid HIV. However, he does say he's gotten almost the full variety of other pass-along bugs, from herpes to amoebic intestinal crap.


    That sucks for him. Like all things in life, sex does not come without an inherent risk. You have to decide for yourself if the benefits outweigh the risk. I like to jump off of structures thousands of feet off the ground and hope that I'm able to open a small piece of canvas attached to a few ropes which will stop me from hitting the ground hard enough to kill me in proper timing, and I do it often. Far more often than I have sexual encounters, in fact. When contrasting protected sex with near-death experiences several times in a single day, it doesn't seem quite as risky. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 18, 2011 7:47 PM GMT
    Isn't the idea of a fuck buddy a guy you can have some what regular sex with without the emotional attachment? Ideally a few fuck buds and you don't need to be sniffin' around for tail that you don't know anything about.
    I'd like to think I could handle having a half dozen fuck buds, but truth is, I'd be happy to find one.
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    Jul 19, 2011 1:07 AM GMT
    staples_jockey said
    Pyrotech said
    PresentMind saidIN THEORY that is. My best friend in SF is a Free-Range Lover and he's played safely enough to avoid HIV. However, he does say he's gotten almost the full variety of other pass-along bugs, from herpes to amoebic intestinal crap.


    That sucks for him. Like all things in life, sex does not come without an inherent risk. You have to decide for yourself if the benefits outweigh the risk. I like to jump off of structures thousands of feet off the ground and hope that I'm able to open a small piece of canvas attached to a few ropes which will stop me from hitting the ground hard enough to kill me in proper timing, and I do it often. Far more often than I have sexual encounters, in fact. When contrasting protected sex with near-death experiences several times in a single day, it doesn't seem quite as risky. icon_wink.gif

    Just because you're a risk taker doesn't mean that those you're sleeping with are risk takers. Or those they're sleeping with. That's always my concern when considering hooking up with a guy....is he like you? Or did he just sleep with someone like you? Guys should come with dance cards/resumes so you can assess the risk and make an informed decision, haha.


    If the person I'd be sleeping with wasn't a risk taker, they probably wouldn't be taking the risk of sleeping around with people they don't know. If I'm their fuck buddy, then I know ahead of time that they are risk takers, because the act of getting a fuck buddy is taking a risk in itself. If I'm sleeping with a guy I'm dating, they're a risk taker, as I don't date guys that aren't into taking risks.
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    Jul 20, 2011 6:39 PM GMT
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    Jul 20, 2011 6:44 PM GMT
    PresentMind saidWould you prefer just one.....or enough for a baseball team?

    Just talked with a guy, my age-54, who is happily partnered and claims that he and partner have sex 3 times a week.

    But he likes extra so he has 4 or 5 other fuckbuddies he describes as Regulars!!!!!!!!

    NOTE: If you're not getting laid it's because he's using the entire supply of free sex out there.


    So back to question: One? or More in your perfect world?

    And if you've had the experience already, please share how things worked out.


    What?! So you're saying that if a couple is not having sex with each other, they must be having sex with other people on the side?! WTH? You serious??? icon_eek.gif