Straight guy/ Gay guy lol the confusion SMH

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    Jul 18, 2011 8:52 AM GMT
    i remeber in Highschool (boarding) there was this guy i knew from israel he was new and was a transfer from another international school he and i became freinds. to make a long story short i realy had strong feelings for him and i felt from the way he looked at me and body language that he could be either gay or bi, but i never summed up the courrage to ask or tell him about how i felt. It was a week after that he left back to israel and then the torment to my concience of me not asking him or telling him haunted me

    beacause if he was bi or gay what i did tell him, maybe a relationship could have sprouted or what if he wasnt he would have said and i would be able to move on but now il never know lol

    have any of you guys out there told a person you had feelings for about how you felt not knowing if they where gay/bi or straight?
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    Jul 18, 2011 3:25 PM GMT
    Why waste time developing feelings for someone who's going to be leaving soon anyway?

    Just recently I was about to develop feelings for my "straight" friend (closeted), but learned that he's looking for a better job. So, I suppressed the feelings and continued life as usual. Turned out to be a good move because he just got the job he wanted, and moved away this weekend. I can hardly wait till the end of today so I can hear how his first day at the new job went. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 18, 2011 3:35 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidWhy waste time developing feelings for someone who's going to be leaving soon anyway?

    Just recently I was about to develop feelings for my "straight" friend (closeted), but learned that he's looking for a better job. So, I suppressed the feelings and continued life as usual. Turned out to be a good move because he just got the job he wanted, and moved away this weekend. I can hardly wait till the end of today so I can hear how his first day at the new job went. icon_biggrin.gif


    i had no idea he was leaving...but hey at least i got a responce LOLicon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif