Oh for the love of God this again! Human sexuality is very complex. That being said, it is not up for any of us to decide what makes a person gay or straight. I was watching x-tube the other day, and there was a gay guy who had all this videos of FTM transexual videos saved to his favorites. the girl/guy whatever he/she considers his/herself, had the body of a guy, but the vagina was intact. So, I was confused as of how it was that the gay guy was aroused by looking at a vagina, if he was gay. So, I clicked on the transexual's (FTM) account and was even more confused. She had videos of men jerking off saved to her favorites. I thought, if she was already a woman and obviously liked men, why did she feel like she had to transform her body into a man? Then the phrase "Whatever floats your boat" came to mind. Also, a lot of men here have attested that they have slept with women, but under no circumstance are they straight or bi. Lately I've been thinking that the reason gays aren't accepted by straights is because gays can be as judgemental or even worse than homophobes.To close this little rant, I just came across the Movie "The kids are alright" on HBO (really good movie by the way) the other day, and there is a scene were the lesbian couple ends up having to explain to their son why they watch guy on guy porn if they're lesbians. So, you don't have to try to understand these people, you just have to try to accept their sexuality.