Meeting New Guys

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    Jul 19, 2011 4:08 AM GMT
    Let's see how I can explain this! If I posted my profile and it clearly stated what i was into and what I was seeking then if someone matched those guidelines, why wouldn't they show interest? When i first try to talk to other guys I try to find out who they are as a person and stay very casual into the conversation. I don't bombard people into rushing them or declaring them to show themselves to me, because i would not want anyone doing that to me. With this said why do guys continue to ignore you when your just say "Hey"?
  • shiningstar

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    Jul 20, 2011 3:20 PM GMT
    I think all guys are not same,things would be fine
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    Jul 20, 2011 3:33 PM GMT
    cuteboy1984 saidIf I posted my profile and it clearly stated what i was into and what I was seeking then if someone matched those guidelines, why wouldn't they show interest?


    Simple. Because you're only considering half the equation. They fit what you're looking for but you may not be what they're looking for.
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    Jul 20, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
    mdstudio said
    cuteboy1984 saidIf I posted my profile and it clearly stated what i was into and what I was seeking then if someone matched those guidelines, why wouldn't they show interest?


    Simple. Because you're only considering half the equation. They fit what you're looking for but you may not be what they're looking for.
    And let's face it: This is first and foremost a fitness site. People come here to date/hookup/hang out with guys who are in shape, or working toward getting in shape. I saw nothing in your profile that indicated you're working on getting in shape. (except for the default settings for weight and cardio training).

    PS. Sixty-something pounds ago when I was overweight, I couldn't get anyone to talk to me on here either...at least, not the ones I had interest in. With a year or so of hard work and a healthier diet, that has drastically changed.