I don't think this has been referenced here before so I thought I'd share it.

A very good story, in Newsweek, of a gay man's thoughts on gay marriage after the recent legislature of New York. It reflects so much of what, I think, many gay men and women have struggled with their entire lives, as well as countering many arguments presented by those opposed to gay marriage. It's well written and worth the read.

Why Gay Marriage Is Good For Straight America