Why do I always get the Pretending-to-be-gay Str8s???

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    Jul 20, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    It's always the same procedure: he looks at me, he looks at me, he looks at me. And I look at him, I look at him, I look at him and then if I talk to him, he tells me he is of course straight and he denies that he even checked me out. icon_rolleyes.gif And from that moment on, he never looks at me again...

    Any thoughts? Answers? I feel like being a magnet for these people ... So maybe I'm one of them myself? icon_eek.gif ... I really like men though.
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    Jul 20, 2011 2:28 PM GMT
    These guys are probably very deeply in the closet.

    I cannot speak much for your locale, but generally speaking, if you live inside the built up part of Montréal city, you may have better success meeting gay men who are out than if you might in the suburbs.

    Also, it may depend on a number of other factors which are often beyond your control.

    Don't let it stress you. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 20, 2011 2:32 PM GMT
    Yeah, it seems like they're closeted and honestly may not even be aware of it. Something about you has consciously or unconsciously peaked their interest. Guys who aren't interested in guys might glance once or twice but that's it.
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    Jul 20, 2011 2:35 PM GMT
    It's happened to me before on the bus, at the gym, in class, at work etc. Although I usually don't go talk to these people. But in your case, there's nothing you can do really after they say they're straight. Just move on and try to find a man who's gay/bi.
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    Jul 20, 2011 2:52 PM GMT
    Hmm I actually wish this would happen to me more. Guys seem to never look at me while I'm working out. I can never really tell if a guy is even checking me out or not. Usually it seems the guys I like are straight or at least appear to be.
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    Jul 21, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    I keep thinking that it is a mindset in the sense of a pattern that I put up, because no girl is ever looking at me like that... neither gay guys when walking through the village. So, I actually think it's the way the mind perceives is that I attract these people unconsciously or consciously.

    There is this theory that we are all hetero and homo at the same time and for some the pendelum hits out to one way or another and some are stuck in between.

    @alphatrigger: I'm not sure which part of the city you refer to by "built up". I don't live in the suburbs though.

    @microbiologist: I know that I cannot really do anything. It's just a bit frustrating that it always happens in the same way...


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    Jul 21, 2011 2:49 AM GMT
    Not all guys who check you out are "checking you" out. There are plenty of guys and girls that I check out without remotely thinking anything sexually. Sometimes it's just an "I'm observing you" session and the fact that you two made eye contact may make them even think you are checking them out. Then they'll usually see if you're still looking at them. I get a lot of guys and some girls who think they know me but can't place my face too. Just another take.

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    Jul 21, 2011 2:56 AM GMT
    Next time just wait for him to talk to u instead. Make sure he knows ure interested and wait...

    Ps: what do u talk to him about that makes him say he is straight
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    Jul 21, 2011 2:57 AM GMT
    I get that alot.
    By the end of the night they all felt much relieved getting their dicks sucked and their asses fucked. Lol!
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    Jul 21, 2011 3:01 AM GMT
    In cases such as these....don't talk to them first....wait em out...If he has the nuts to come up to ya...then turn on the charm...Some str8 dudes do this staring game to stroke their egos....don't play into it...Let them stroke themselves.....BUD
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    Jul 21, 2011 3:03 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said I get that alot.
    By the end of the night they all felt much relieved getting their dicks sucked and their asses fucked. Lol!


    Psssst....You missed the guy over there in the corner!! icon_lol.gif

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    Jul 21, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    FreudeFreude saidIt's always the same procedure: he looks at me, he looks at me, he looks at me. And I look at him, I look at him, I look at him and then if I talk to him, he tells me he is of course straight and he denies that he even checked me out. icon_rolleyes.gif And from that moment on, he never looks at me again...

    Any thoughts? Answers? I feel like being a magnet for these people ... So maybe I'm one of them myself? icon_eek.gif ... I really like men though.
    Don't tell them you're gay. That's the secret to banging them. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 21, 2011 3:27 AM GMT
    turtleneckjock said
    GigoloAssassin said I get that alot.
    By the end of the night they all felt much relieved getting their dicks sucked and their asses fucked. Lol!


    Psssst....You missed the guy over there in the corner!! icon_lol.gif



    AHAH! icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 21, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    fuck em all, in the fuck off sense
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    Jul 25, 2011 6:00 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidDon't tell them you're gay. That's the secret to banging them. icon_wink.gif


    Yeah, I think that's really the secret!!
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    Jul 25, 2011 6:32 AM GMT
    mybud saidIn cases such as these....don't talk to them first....wait em out...If he has the nuts to come up to ya...then turn on the charm...Some str8 dudes do this staring game to stroke their egos....don't play into it...Let them stroke themselves.....BUD



    Yeah...but.....he's so freaking hot and if he does it one more time I'm going to smack him in the face with my dick.
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    Jul 25, 2011 7:13 AM GMT
    FreudeFreude saidIt's always the same procedure: he looks at me, he looks at me, he looks at me. And I look at him, I look at him, I look at him and then if I talk to him, he tells me he is of course straight and he denies that he even checked me out. icon_rolleyes.gif And from that moment on, he never looks at me again...

    Any thoughts? Answers? I feel like being a magnet for these people ... So maybe I'm one of them myself? icon_eek.gif ... I really like men though.


    lucky.....icon_cool.gif