Anal sex

  • Hellheim

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    Jul 21, 2011 6:20 AM GMT
    I just had sex with this really cool dude. He was patitent and nice. At first it hurt a litle but after a while it stopped hurting. He kept fucking me for like 45 minutes , but in that time i kept wondering - when am i going to feel pleasure? I can't describe the sex, all i felt was the pressure from his dick , which was kind of nice, but no pleasure. Is that how anal sex is supposed 2 feel like?
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    Jul 21, 2011 6:27 AM GMT
    You may just not be into bottoming.
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    Jul 21, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou may just not be into bottoming.

    Yet
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    Jul 21, 2011 8:28 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes saidYou may just not be into bottoming.

    Yet


    HAHA



    And no, it is not how is supposed to be. It feels great, I can't describe it, but it's awesome icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 21, 2011 8:33 AM GMT
    Maybe he's a bad top. You should have loved it!
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    Jul 21, 2011 8:43 AM GMT
    Pure saidMaybe he's a bad top. You should have loved it!

    Exactly!
  • Hellheim

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    Jul 21, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    He has an awsome dick and a nice body. There wasnt anything 2 dislike. But idk why i didnt feel pleasure. I mean , it wasnt that bad. Had lube, i was in the mood after cuddling with him and he was nice and patient, and what i dont get is why did i feel more pleasure teasing myself in the ass than him fucking me
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    Jul 22, 2011 3:20 AM GMT
    I see a few different possibilities here:

    You may not just be as sensitive as most bottoms in this type of situation.
    You were more focused on staying relaxed, rather than just being relaxed.
    Perhaps you two just didn't find the right position to hit your spot.

    Like I said, just a few possibilites. Everyone is different.

  • Jul 22, 2011 1:35 PM GMT
    I am a really slutty bottom. Have sex at least 2-3 times a day and probably 3 new guys a week. I can tell you that if you are not feeling pain which can happen if they hit your prostrate or sacrum the wrong way, or you are not using enough lube, then you should feel pleasur. But the pleasure is not the same at cumming. It is more emotional... the fact that you are being penetrated, and the feeling of being stretched. And the feeling that you are there for his pleasure. At least that is what I feel. Its like blowing a guy, not much pleasure physically for me, but the fact that I am going to make him groan and cum is what is pleasurable. I cannot stress the lube enough however. More the better, unless u r into pain a bit, which is sometimes hot. But once he is inside you it should be great.
  • Hellheim

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    Jul 22, 2011 9:15 PM GMT
    Well , i kinda feel pain when they hit my ,,,, and my........uhm... yeah. And there is pain at the begining but it transforms into comfort
  • Hellheim

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    Jul 22, 2011 9:16 PM GMT
    Why is it so different when i finger my ass and when i get fucked? i mean , when i finger myself i feel awsome , sometimes i cant even stand the pleasure , but in sex, i dont feel even 10% of that
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    Jul 22, 2011 9:18 PM GMT
    Hellheim saidWhy is it so different when i finger my ass and when i get fucked? i mean , when i finger myself i feel awsome , sometimes i cant even stand the pleasure , but in sex, i dont feel even 10% of that


    Its always easier when you are in control. I feel the same way, but when I bottom its different because you have to trust the guy toping you.