Being rejected on grindr....actually made me feel good!

  • brendanmuscle...

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    Jul 21, 2011 8:51 PM GMT
    This happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good!65myvr.jpg
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    Jul 21, 2011 9:21 PM GMT
    well at least he was honest, there arent many honest guys out there now days....>:I
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    Definitely prefer an honest rejection that's nicely worded to being lead on/lied to.
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidWhen I was a roided out 250lb muscle head I got turned down a lot for being too muscular/too big. It happened a lot because I am not attracted to big guys. I like them smaller, leaner and shorter. So it sort of became a problem. Now, not so much anymore as I am not that big anymore.


    I agree, too much is way to much.

    Right now Im dating a guy who is 6'1" and 218lbs, he is borderline too much muscle.
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:41 PM GMT
    haha ego boost. I wouldn't turn you down just sayin'..
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:46 PM GMT
    YOU got rejected on grindr???
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidWhen I was a roided out 250lb muscle head I got turned down a lot for being too muscular/too big. It happened a lot because I am not attracted to big guys. I like them smaller, leaner and shorter. So it sort of became a problem. Now, not so much anymore as I am not that big anymore.


    I agree, too much is way to much.

    Right now Im dating a guy who is 6'1" and 218lbs, he is borderline too much muscle.


    Chainera do u think Arnold was too Muscular - In his prime (26-30)?

    I Want his bod
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    brendanmuscles said
    Chainers said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidWhen I was a roided out 250lb muscle head I got turned down a lot for being too muscular/too big. It happened a lot because I am not attracted to big guys. I like them smaller, leaner and shorter. So it sort of became a problem. Now, not so much anymore as I am not that big anymore.


    I agree, too much is way to much.

    Right now Im dating a guy who is 6'1" and 218lbs, he is borderline too much muscle.


    Chainera do u think Arnold was too Muscular - In his prime (26-30)?

    I Want his bod


    Oh him?

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    yes, but thats just me. I think Zeb Atlas is way to much muscle:

    Zeb%2BAtlas%2BFeat.%2BPearly%2BGates%2B-

    but others disagree. Different strokes for different folks.
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    No matter WHAT you look like, there will be those that think you're the hottest thing to walk the earth, those that are neutral and those that think you're gross. It's just the way it is. Don't take it personally. That's why it's important to just be the person YOU want to be. If we tried to please everybody, we'd go insane. There are who I think are extremely hot that my friends are grossed out by. Vice versa. I've had guys go on and on about how hot I am while guys I'm into won't give me the time of day. The trick is finding someone you find hot that also finds you hot. That's the holy grail that seems to elude me.
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:12 PM GMT
    brendanmuscles saidThis happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good!65myvr.jpg


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:12 PM GMT
    brendanmuscles saidThis happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good! icon_biggrin.gif


    He turned you down?!
    What a dumbass! His loss.
    Glad you felt good and moved on about it.
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:14 PM GMT
    S60turbo said


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL
    what would he want from a 46 year old.......loloolool.....
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:15 PM GMT
    i_VAN said
    S60turbo said


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL
    what would he want from a 46 year old.......loloolool.....


    Stop being a cunt.
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:16 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    i_VAN said
    S60turbo said


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL
    what would he want from a 46 year old.......loloolool.....


    Stop being a cunt.
    i cant help it....its a disease...is sprawling everywhere!!....
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:16 PM GMT
    brendanmuscles saidThis happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good!65myvr.jpg


    20 is wayyyy too young. for me at least.
    clearly you intimidated him stud lol.
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:18 PM GMT
    S60turbo said
    brendanmuscles saidThis happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good!65myvr.jpg


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL



    I was wondering the same thing. Guys are dead to me until they hit 25. Well 24. Ok 23. 22 looks nice but really...? ;)
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:19 PM GMT
    S60turbo said
    brendanmuscles saidThis happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good!65myvr.jpg


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL


    I tend to go for guys like 19 to lower to mid 30s so
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:19 PM GMT
    brendanmuscles said
    S60turbo said
    brendanmuscles saidThis happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good!65myvr.jpg


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL


    I tend to go for guys like 19 to lower


    LOL I love creative quoting!

    Thats what I first read when I saw that post and I was like "Damn, never thought of Brendan as a pedo!"
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:19 PM GMT
    Congrats?
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:22 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    brendanmuscles said
    S60turbo said
    brendanmuscles saidThis happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good!65myvr.jpg


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL


    I tend to go for guys like 19 to lower


    LOL I love creative quoting!

    Thats what I first read when I saw that post and I was like "Damn, never thought of Brendan as a pedo!"


    Huh? Lol I never said that
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:22 PM GMT
    LOL...

    I agree with chainer's what would you want with a 20 year old. They're just awkward
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:22 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]brendanmuscles said
    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL

    I tend to go for guys like 19 to lower

    LOL I love creative quoting!

    Thats what I first read when I saw that post and I was like "Damn, never thought of Brendan as a pedo!"

    Huh? Lol I never said that[/quote]

    I know I know I thought it was funny though...
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
    MsclDrew saidLOL...

    I agree with chainer's what would you want with a 20 year old. They're just awkward


    Yes, you and me love our older folks dont we drew?
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:26 PM GMT
    dannyboy1101 said
    S60turbo said
    brendanmuscles saidThis happened to me recently. I was messaged by a guy who was actually pretty goodlooking, and i proceeded to send him another photo of myself. My main photo was a picture of my face with my shirt on that he saw. Upon seeing that photo (which was a shirtless photo), he turned me down- it sounds like it was because i was too muscular for him. Actually, i'd usually feel bad about being turned down, but in this case... it kind of made me feel good!65myvr.jpg


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL



    I was wondering the same thing. Guys are dead to me until they hit 25. Well 24. Ok 23. 22 looks nice but really...? ;)


    Nothing wrong with guys who are 22 or 23 here if they have a good body
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:49 PM GMT
    i_VAN said
    S60turbo said


    What would ya want with a 20 year old............LOL
    what would he want from a 46 year old.......loloolool.....


    Experience, confidents, established, knowledge, not to mention a big meaty daddy dick with a nice set of low hangers.......LOL............shall I go on?
    Oh, and I said "with", not "from".