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    Apr 25, 2008 2:07 PM GMT
    Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated...

    I recently broke off my dry spell last monday, and it has been a while, and it was so hot and good, and we just kept on going at it.

    Ha hasn't come back since then, and im pretty sure that it isn't a one night stand because i see him at work almost everyday!

    I have to admit that i got naggy and texted him to come everyday, because after a while u get really horny and i just wanted to do it again! Well, yesterday after soccer, he made out with a guy behind a door, and then i know that he's in a open relationship and can sleep with whoever, so maybe he did see it as a one night thing? or was i just too naggy?

    And what is ur view on being naggy when it comes to sex?

    Any advice would be appreciated, thanks in advance
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    Apr 25, 2008 2:18 PM GMT
    If he is in an open relationship, and is like you (young and horny) then it may be just a one-night stand, or a few "sessions".

    I don't think texting him once is any problem, but two or three times a day can rub people the wrong way.

    I would give him a bit of space, he may want to go another round or two. Don't hold your breath on a "fuck-buddy" arrangement though.

    Congrats on relieving your sexual frustration, glad you enjoyed it.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 25, 2008 5:07 PM GMT

    Hey there Moudi... interesting situation.

    I would kind of concur, if he's in an open relationship, he may well things to be "open" meaning he's going to do things as he wants on his terms. Those terms may mean a one time thing or may mean a repeat.

    I have pretty specific views about this kind of thing... if your interested, text him (as you did), but don't do it more than once or twice. Don't keep after him. Its also about perception. You should think (and rightfully so) that he should be damn glad he had a chance to be with you! You have said you have an interest, if he doesn't respond, I'd move on to someone who values you physically to a greater extent.
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    Apr 25, 2008 7:56 PM GMT
    thanks for the feedback guys..i just tend to put myself down in such situations and blame myself for it, which i should not