Say if you think someone is cute and they just say thanxs what does that mean ?

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    Jul 22, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    does it mean there not interested ? , i asked a person once if they thought i was cute and they said yeah soo confused
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    Jul 22, 2011 3:16 PM GMT
    you asked? that sounds a little weird to my ears

    if a person walks up to me and says "you're cute" and I respond "thanks", it usually means your compliment interests me and I would like to hear what you have to say next.

    if I say "thanks" then shift my body away, it means I'm being polite but I'm not interested. Gotta read the body language clues.
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    Jul 22, 2011 3:19 PM GMT
    ac2394 saiddoes it mean there not interested ? , i asked a person once if they thought i was cute and they said yeah soo confused
    They said that as a compliment usually mean just to be nice icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 22, 2011 3:22 PM GMT
    I'd be turned off if somebody asked me whether or not I thought they were cute. It shows a lack of confidence and is actually weird. Besides, it puts the person in an awkward situation because what if they don't think you are?!?!
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    Jul 22, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    I think this is the creepiest post AC has ever done...
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    Jul 22, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    CuriousOne saidI'd be turned off if somebody asked me whether or not I thought they were cute. It shows a lack of confidence and is actually weird. Besides, it puts the person in an awkward situation because what if they don't think you are?!?!


    this
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    Jul 22, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    Don't put people in the uncomfortable position of having to answer that question. You shouldn't fish for compliments. If you do that, does the compliment really mean that much?
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 22, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
    Well, there are different definitions of what "cute" means...so I would have said "yes" also if asked by another guy. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 22, 2011 5:15 PM GMT
    I'm curious to hear why you asked this guy if he thought you were cute...Do you know him? If so, how well? I hate to say it but I couldn't ever fathom telling someone they aren't cute even if I really didn't think they were. For me it's sometimes easier just to be nice than to create an "awkward" situation.
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    Jul 22, 2011 5:19 PM GMT
    Well it doesn't really tell you much, I'd say. If you jump someone with an answer like that, they might not respond truthfully, because no one wants an awkward conversation where they have to clarify that they don't think you're attractive. It sounds like the guy was being vague...maybe he didn't feel comfortable with a question like that.
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    Jul 22, 2011 5:32 PM GMT
    Outside and inside don't always have the same level of cuteness.

    Putting someone on the spot to tell you if you are cute or not makes the inside cuteness level go down, which in turn makes the outside cuteness go down.
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    Jul 22, 2011 5:33 PM GMT
    Well for one thing, OP, you should never ask someone if they think you are cute. You're fishing for compliments and sometimes (if not a lot of times) that will backfire on you. You're putting someone on the spot and they will either lie to you just to make you feel good or give you an honest answer in which case you might not really like.

    If you randomly say that someone is cute and they say thanks then just take it and move on. It means they acknowledged your compliment. Mission accomplished. You shouldn't expect more then that. The minute you do is when things become awkward and that's when people start feeling strange about acknowledging you.
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    Jul 22, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    ok thanxs
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    Jul 22, 2011 7:17 PM GMT
    Means they are polite, that's all.
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    Jul 22, 2011 7:23 PM GMT
    it's means you read too much into what others say or react to