Attraction in the gym

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    Jul 22, 2011 7:23 PM GMT
    I just joined this new gym, where I'm new in town. The guy who was training me, "C," came on to me pretty quickly, and one thing lead to another, and lets say the sweat and hard breathing carried on into my apartment. Well, two weeks later, things got odd at the gym when things fell through (he wont train/talk to me anymore)...I want to know what to do to fix this problem. Also, well I guess I forgot to mention...I also just recently came out...and I'm really into fitness...so I'm always looking for a workout partner ; ). Feel free to message/add me on facebook if you ever want to sweat it out!

    http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=663484833
  • gwuinsf

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    Jul 22, 2011 10:04 PM GMT
    You should find a new trainer.
  • DrewT

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    Jul 22, 2011 10:09 PM GMT
    Yup. Get a new trainer.
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    Jul 22, 2011 10:15 PM GMT
    IMO, if you value a business relation you have, either keep it business, or, expect what happened to you to happen. It's a 'classic' 'text book' situation.
    P.S.- Sorry it happened to you.
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    Jul 22, 2011 10:16 PM GMT
    New Gym :C ?
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    Jul 22, 2011 11:12 PM GMT
    Call me cynical, but you join a site without adding a profile picture, yet link to your fb which assumingly has more personal information and you want people to believe it's really you? Sounds like you want random people to message somebody you know as a goof or you don't like someone.

    Edit: I don't mean the above to be as jerky as it sounds, just seems odd to me.

  • danielvn

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    Jul 22, 2011 11:32 PM GMT
    That means he's trying to avoid you icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 22, 2011 11:34 PM GMT
    P.S. Go get tested, and about every 6 months while you're sexually active. Congrats on coming out. Chances are you're not the first person this has happened to in your gym with this guy. Stay safe.
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    Jul 22, 2011 11:54 PM GMT
    mforty saidAttraction in the gym
    That's the only reason to join one.
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    Jul 23, 2011 12:23 AM GMT
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    Jul 23, 2011 2:04 AM GMT
    More like this (I thought Flagyl was more for trichomonas):

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    Jul 23, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    cut_and_paste saidCall me cynical, but you join a site without adding a profile picture, yet link to your fb which assumingly has more personal information and you want people to believe it's really you? Sounds like you want random people to message somebody you know as a goof or you don't like someone.

    Edit: I don't mean the above to be as jerky as it sounds, just seems odd to me.



    That was my thought too.