Anyone else wanted to hit on their doctor during an exam???

  • bigguysf

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    Apr 26, 2008 3:50 PM GMT
    I knew when I selected him as my primary care physician that it might lead to trouble! icon_lol.gif

    My doc is really cute, and I have only had occasion to see him twice so it was okay. The first time was about a shoulder injury and an unrelated prescription refill. This time I had to see him about something where I needed to "drop trou" so he could take a look. I almost got hard while he was examining me. And even though he was totally professional about it all, I was kinda getting that feeling from him that he could stay down there as long as I would have allowed him to. icon_razz.gif

    As I was leaving he gave me a long and lingering look... you know the type. The look that means "I really wish I could do more for you". But I'm sure his professional ethics override was stopping him.

    Part of me wants to call and leave a message to have him call me... and then lay it out there. But if I do, the patient-doctor relationship is pretty much over.
    Has anyone else had this predicament before??? icon_question.gif
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    Apr 26, 2008 4:56 PM GMT
    When I pick my DR, I essentially "interview" them from a list of written questions. I ask them a variety of questions and they include very direct questions about their attitudes toward gay issues and some "more personal" questions. One of those questions is "how would you handle giving an exam to someone that finds you "attractive" or "sexy" enough that they or you experience an errection or other physical reactions? I have my questions written out and with me when I walk in. All DR's have a "professional ethic", but I have declined services from some Dr's based on their answers or unwillingness to answer. I have had more female Dr's than male and it just isn't a issue. The last thing I want to worry about when I NEED to see my Dr. is the added complication of "rules of engagement" for dating and attraction. There are enough "filters and barriers" to clear communication with your MD, if this is a real issue, get a new DR and then ask him out!
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    Apr 26, 2008 5:01 PM GMT
    No, my doctor is far too important to my health to jeopardize the relationship by hitting on him! Doctors that specialize in HIV patients are in short supply in Toronto.

    Also both my doctor and myself are in long-term relationships.

    If a doctor hits on a patient he or she could be suspended or lose their license if the patient complains.
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    Apr 26, 2008 6:32 PM GMT
    No, but I had a young dental student working on me who I thought was cute. He let me take his picture.
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    Apr 26, 2008 7:33 PM GMT
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  • GQjock

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    Apr 26, 2008 7:50 PM GMT
    Being on the opposite side of that coin I can tell you that sometimes Dr's can be tempted too
    ....but it's not very ethical and in some states constitutes sexual harassment
  • Squarejaw

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    Apr 26, 2008 10:51 PM GMT
    No, but I had a really hot proctologist and I pretended we were on a date when he checked my prostate.
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    Apr 26, 2008 10:53 PM GMT
    Nope. Not even a little bit. But he is the best. I actually left my old doctor of 5+ years for him.
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    Apr 26, 2008 11:04 PM GMT
    don't you hate it when you get hard during the proctology exams?

    They are supposed to lube thier fingers with spit right?
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    Apr 27, 2008 12:06 AM GMT
    icon_redface.gif My GI doctor is a very hunky guy,tall dark,nice ass..he has the worst breath. Total turn off,yuk. So I look forwad to seeing him for my health(sure)
  • MisterT

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    Apr 27, 2008 12:22 AM GMT
    Most of my doctors have been way older, and soo not my type, so generally not a problem. i did have one once that was very attractive, but being nervous helped in the fact that i didn't get hard during the exam. I wanted to hit on him, but refrained out of respect.
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    Apr 27, 2008 12:54 AM GMT
    nysexy saidicon_biggrin.gif
    I wanna know what "icon_biggrin.gif" means!
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    Apr 27, 2008 2:37 AM GMT
    I get a complete annual physical and a new MD has joined forces with my regular doc. The new doc is young, hunky, and very cute....but married. When he had me up on the table - doggy style for the prostate exam, I got hard as steel, and when he went in, I started to drip pre-cum. I was embarassed and apologized. He made little of it, but I'll never forget the look in his eyes - and his stare - lips slightly parted. His slacks were hi-draped and I couldn't see if he was aroused. His eyes though, spoke volumes! Nothing happened - the doc was totally professional - unfortunately!
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    Apr 27, 2008 10:50 AM GMT
    would a professor count? icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 27, 2008 11:15 AM GMT
    Bring back Dr Kildare!
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    Apr 27, 2008 1:36 PM GMT
    I have a gay doctor, but fortunately he's not my type.

    However, a few years ago, I recall when I was about to go into surgery, blatantly flirting with the anesthesiologist.
  • morholt

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    Apr 27, 2008 2:00 PM GMT
    That would be rude...She's married.
  • morholt

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    Apr 27, 2008 2:01 PM GMT
    dr_jackl said[quote][cite]nysexy said[/cite]icon_biggrin.gif
    I wanna know what "icon_biggrin.gif" means![/quote]

    The opposite of icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 27, 2008 2:15 PM GMT
    I know what icon_lol.gif means too.

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    Apr 28, 2008 10:53 AM GMT
    nysexy saidicon_biggrin.gif


    *Hits on Dr.nysexy* icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 29, 2008 3:16 AM GMT
    SOmetimes a smie is just a smile icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 29, 2008 3:28 AM GMT
    Coming from the doctor side of this one I can tell you that there have been times when I've mentally cursed the bad luck to have a great looking guy as my patient, knowing ethics preclude any personal advances. I'm an ER doc, though, so usually my patients aren't feeling their best and after the initial double take it's easy to slip back into doctor mode and just do my best to make them feel better. (OK, no innuendo here, guys! icon_twisted.gif )
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Apr 29, 2008 4:14 PM GMT
    A few years ago I had to go to a referred Doctor for a back problem.
    I was shocked when he came to examine me; He was a 11 on my personal 1-10 scale! He was an American born Chinese guy who plays Tennis and is cute, charming and professional all at the same time.
    I admit to getting hard when he was touching me and the god news is.... I ran into him on the net and we DID date for a time before he moved to Europe for a research job,
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    Apr 29, 2008 8:16 PM GMT
    i'm looking for a doctor svegali... would you mind terribly holding my nuts while i turn my head and cough? it'd be much appreciated
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    Apr 29, 2008 8:26 PM GMT
    my best friend lives in nyc. he has a dermatologist who, at every visit, makes him strip down to his underwear. SERIOUSLY! i've asked my friend if he's ever questioned the doctor as to why, but my friend is afraid of 'insulting' him. we all think it's hysterical and you can only imagine the jokes we make...