Can someone help me with this confusion ..

  • mick85

    Posts: 137

    Jul 24, 2011 9:15 PM GMT
    For me I think it was because whichever Girl I liked had a boy friend ..or was a lesbian ..in one case .. ..This was till late college..it was as late as after completing my Bachelors I realised I was Gay ..I awlays have been liking Girls earlier till the age as late as 22 ..but never got a success ..May be I didnt try so much because I was just attracted ..but never was physically attracted ..never wanted to have Sex with them ..(but I was nvr physically attracted to men as well..) though I watched few Nude men ..and always liked their Site,,but always wanted a Girl Friend ..Now I know I am Gay ..had a lot of sex with men ..but still love a Girl and Want her ..I m so confused ..and I dont know was it just co incident or plain luck ..that both in my school and college ,I had the best looking cutest guy in the college as my Best friend ..though I didnt purposely befriended them ..but naturally they became my Bet Friends ..and now I think they are Gay too..not sure though ..and cannot ask them either ..
  • rjstuman

    Posts: 3

    Jul 25, 2011 12:56 AM GMT
    Hmmm...I understand a bit of what you're saying. I think there's a bit of homo and hetero in everyone to an extent. I'm a separated from my wife and have always been attracted to men and women...but never sexually to a woman. I've come to the conclusion that we're all sexual creatures...and instead of analyzing it too much, I decided to go with felt right. Some questions in life may not have definite answers. Take care
  • barriehomeboy

    Posts: 2475

    Jul 25, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    Gay men generally are considered better looking that st8 guys, but mostly I think that's because they know what looks good on a guy, and they make the most of what they have and hide the bad parts. They're gaydar might have picked up signals that you were sending, but that you weren't picking up yourself. Lots of gay guys have girls for best friends. We're half man half woman, as the aboriginals believed before Europeans corrupted them, so it's natural for you to surround yourself with either gender that you feel most comfortable socializing with. If you have a sexual attraction to women, you're bisexual. The best estimates are that bisexual men outnumber gay men 2 to 1. That means about 1/3 of men have some sort of sexual attraction to other men. If you're one of them, don't worry so much about where you fit in on the sliding scale. Labels are for soup tins, not people. Just be you.
  • alphatop

    Posts: 1955

    Jul 25, 2011 7:19 AM GMT
    mick85 saidFor me I think it was because whichever Girl I liked had a boy friend ..or was a lesbian ..in one case .. ..This was till late college..it was as late as after completing my Bachelors I realised I was Gay ..I awlays have been liking Girls earlier till the age as late as 22 ..but never got a success ..May be I didnt try so much because I was just attracted ..but never was physically attracted ..never wanted to have Sex with them ..(but I was nvr physically attracted to men as well..) though I watched few Nude men ..and always liked their Site,,but always wanted a Girl Friend ..Now I know I am Gay ..had a lot of sex with men ..but still love a Girl and Want her ..I m so confused ..and I dont know was it just co incident or plain luck ..that both in my school and college ,I had the best looking cutest guy in the college as my Best friend ..though I didnt purposely befriended them ..but naturally they became my Bet Friends ..and now I think they are Gay too..not sure though ..and cannot ask them either ..


    Nobody can help you, except yourself. Go have sex with a girl, than with a guy, than with both of them.