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    Jul 25, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
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    Jul 25, 2011 2:44 PM GMT
    Well you can check your sent if he read it, and if so, he's probably no longer interested.

    Even then. speculating is bad, but right off the bat, since he took 2 days to respond, he's either not on here much or gets tons of messages since he's so attractive and hasn't gotten back to yours.

    Try not to speculate, but if 2 or 3 weeks from now you haven't got a response, he either forgot or isn't interested and you should probably move on.
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    Jul 25, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    I respond to people on different sites to be polite. Doesnt mean I want to meet them.
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    Jul 25, 2011 2:48 PM GMT
    Don't be... a watched pot doesn't boil any faster.
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    Jul 25, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    his closet may be deeper and darker than yours; can only check his accounts when the wife is away...move on.
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    Jul 25, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    Like here, do you not have a pic and little information in your profile on that other site or did you at least let him see a pic? Many people won't give a lot of time to faceless profiles.
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    Jul 25, 2011 3:21 PM GMT
    If you are interested in someone its alright to state such. Then if you get ignored a second or a third time move on....

    Sometimes its just timing. I have been underwater with work or other things... there are a lot of reasons for unintentional blow-offs.

    Plus you gotta cut the guy slack since its via the web.... if it were in person it would make it much easier.

    Sorry, because I have been there too and it sorta sucks.
  • cageym

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    Jul 25, 2011 10:01 PM GMT
    I'm sometimes pretty pokey about responding to something like that. It can really make a difference what else is going on in my life, how patient I'm feeling, how horny I am, whatever. Open-ended things like "what are you into" are really tough for me. I always think the guy didn't even bother to read what I've written in my profile but wants me to respond to his email -- WTF? I love knowing why the guy elected to take the time to write me, focuses his questions and indicates what he is hoping to get from me. Then we have a foundation started.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Jul 26, 2011 12:35 AM GMT
    You're not going to find love on the internet. Give up on the dream. That only happens on TV dating site ads
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    Jul 26, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    I do have a pic up on that site. The messages I sent him say unread, but I know if you delete a message without reading it, it stays "unread"...
  • AlanGZ

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    Jul 26, 2011 2:35 AM GMT
    you sent one message to each other and now you are confused?.....wow that's fast!

    Seriously guy grow up!
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    Jul 26, 2011 9:47 PM GMT
    AlanGZ saidyou sent one message to each other and now you are confused?.....wow that's fast!

    Seriously guy grow up!


    What does immaturity have to do with any of this? I said I was confused because someone had expressed interest in me, and now they seem to have fallen off the face of the earth.
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    Jul 26, 2011 10:00 PM GMT
    You're from Amityville and expect people to talk to you? icon_eek.gif
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Amityville_Horror