Jul 26, 2011 3:50 AM GMT
So I met this guy a couple months ago from another site and he goes to my gym. We hit it off really well and we kissed and played around a bit. I'm one that feels that "spark" when I kiss and I thought that a match was made. Anyways we did a bit of that, went out to dinner, said to each other that we were attracted to one another. I went out of town for the weekend and I got endless texts from him claiming that he loves me and he's jealous that I'm in another town potentially with other guys. I did tell him I love him back on the 3rd day away and I was ready to go back home to what I thought was a relationship. So I come back and he drops that bomb on me and says he's been in a committed relationship for 6 years. Of course it frustrated me, but I was already head over heels in love with him. I told him I wanted to have sex with him, and I was turned down. I told him that I know he's going to hurt me, and he said he would never do that. Adding to that, I've become really good friends with him, but I'm a bad flirt and send him the signals all the time. He kissed me time to time, but then went away for a month. When he came back I loved him more. I've become friends with his boyfriend too, but I still love him. I keep insisting to myself that we were meant to be. Almost to a level of obsession. Over the weekend I asked him why he plays with my heart, he says he doesn't. It hurt me even more, I told him I loved him and only him. He said he loves me. I was left even more confused. I never had a guy make me feel this way and in some way I feel I need sexual closure to see if this thing is compatible to move on. I've dated other guys and been with other guys since, some of them were completely in love with me, but all I can think about is this guy. I need some advice from you guys, its all making me all emo and seemingly consuming my life!