The number of guys....

  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 27, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
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    Would the number of guys that another guy has been with before you, affect your decision about starting a long-term relationship with him ?
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    Jul 27, 2011 2:58 PM GMT
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    Jul 27, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    I like my men to cum highly qualified with ample references and a whole lot of experience!

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  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 27, 2011 9:27 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidI like my men to cum highly qualified with ample references and a whole lot of experience!

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    Well, I have many references and experiences......with feet...icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 27, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    No. I try not to judge someone's past. Most of us have at least SOMETHING in our past that isn't our proudest moment. As long as the past is the past, I am good. At least in theory... icon_confused.gif
  • nubScotty

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    Jul 28, 2011 2:21 AM GMT
    I'd actually say it depends on the number, I was with a guy who told me his number was in the 120+ range and when we started dating my number was 2 icon_redface.gif . It actually caused friction in the relationship, but it would never be something I'd turn someone away for. Just something to keep in mind as the relationship develops for me.
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    Jul 28, 2011 8:39 AM GMT
    I never asked that before, I'm not interested in the past slutiness of my ex boyfriends. In my opinion, past is past.

    Or maybe because I don't wanna say my counting lol
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    Jul 28, 2011 8:52 AM GMT
    Better to just not know. Ignorance is bliss. Really, it shouldn't matter.
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    Jul 28, 2011 9:01 AM GMT
    I try not to judge but it will bug me. It means we had very different views on life and lived a different life. Not that it is necessarily a bad thing.
    I want to experience life simultaneously and that is not possible with someone who has slept around, because that person has walked the paths of life so many times with so many different people.
    Honesty is key and ignorance is perhaps truly bliss.
  • AlanGZ

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    Jul 28, 2011 9:06 AM GMT
    I really do not care, i never asked that question anyway...what s the point?
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    Jul 28, 2011 9:47 AM GMT
    No, it wouldn't affect my attraction to him icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 28, 2011 11:55 AM GMT
    No. Why should it matter.
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    Jul 28, 2011 11:59 AM GMT
    I dont know how to ask that.

    "Man, that was great!! ..... phew.... That was really awesome.... you must be experienced.... would you mind filling out this short online questionaire outlining your sexual history, past boyfriends and such?"

  • emailaddress

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    Jul 28, 2011 12:05 PM GMT
    couldnt care less,

    but people would rather being with someone that everyeone else wants instead of no-one wants, right?

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    Jul 28, 2011 12:12 PM GMT
    Don't ask, don't tell.
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    Jul 28, 2011 1:01 PM GMT
    It doesn't really matter at all... It's what you have both in the present which matters most.
  • rick1963

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    Jul 28, 2011 1:11 PM GMT
    I wouldn't let it affect my relationship. You have to look at how things are in the present. I had a period of time I'm not proud of and I think a lot of us go through a "sleep around" stage.
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    Jul 28, 2011 1:24 PM GMT
    don't matter
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    Jul 28, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    I don't think it really matters. Although the past stories can sometimes be very hot and turn me on...
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    Jul 29, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    As long as he's practiced safe sex in the past, it doesn't matter if he's had sex with the entire United States Marine Corps. Past is past and we have to learn to move on and forget about shit that doesn't matter in the long run.