Sound Boarding (Bi guy)

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    Jul 28, 2011 4:01 PM GMT
    Situation... Me=Bi guy, Friend=Bi girl

    I met her back in february, and we hit if if really good becam good friends really fast. When conversations started to turn to life goals and stuff. when conversation turned to future plans and goals and dreams, it seems that changed her mind about how she felt about me. she started to like me more than i liked her. but then she's now telling me whatshe wants tm eto change about EVERYLITTLE THING in MY life. she doesn't know i'm seeing some one, i tried to tell her but she got all deathly emotional so i just joked it off.

    t months back we went out and i ended up sleeping over she made it OBVIOUS without question she wanted to have sex with me, i didn't want to, but i did. to me it was awful, i was below subpar. but she thaught it was awsome.

    is there anyway to say i don't like you like that and i'm not your boyfriend without making her get all emenem/stan on me?

    mind you the main reason i don't see her as a girl i would date is she's a club baby: clubbing drinking smoking... that's not me, that wwill never be me, and she keeps trying to make me.

    ...advise...
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    Jul 28, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    Be honest with your partner about what's going on. Then advise your friend about your partner, that you don't want to keep stringing her along thinking a relationship is possible, and insist that when you go out with her that your partner will accompany you.
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    Jul 28, 2011 4:32 PM GMT
    You make her sound like a psycho bitch. She'll probably cut your dick and balls off if you don't marry her. Either that or she'll get pregnant and say the kid is yours, costing you thousands to prove it's not...or is.
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    Jul 28, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    Cut the strings now. It will hurt her but in the long run will be better.
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    Jul 28, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
    Sorry dude you gotta rip the band aid off and tell her that you can't see her like that and that you want to be friends if anything.
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    Jul 30, 2011 4:31 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou make her sound like a psycho bitch. She'll probably cut your dick and balls off if you don't marry her. Either that or she'll get pregnant and say the kid is yours, costing you thousands to prove it's not...or is.


    that is so not anything i intended to imply
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    Jul 30, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    You should keep on talking even when she gets deathly emotional like you say. icon_wink.gif