I need advice!!!!

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    Jul 29, 2011 3:14 AM GMT
    Ok so i'm 22 and recently I attended a party at my friend's house. A guy ive known for 2 years was there and ive always had a little bit of a crush on him but didnt do anything about it because i was in a long term relationship (which is over now). I start talking with him normally like i always have in the past, then it gets kinda late so i go inside the house and lay down in my gal pal's bed to pass out, my crush walks in and lays down beside me. then he wraps his arm around me and we start cuddling and playin with eachother's hair and stuff like that, we then start making out a bit, but that's as far as it went sexually. we end up staying awake talking till 8 in the morning, we both fall asleep together with his arm still around me. then he wakes up to leave but before he does he makes sure to wake me up, gives me a kiss and says goodbye. The next day I ask a mutual friend to ask him what he thinks of me and he says that im cute but tells her that he doesnt like me like that. we had a lot of fun but i don't get why he won't talk to me anymore!!! Can someone maybe explain what they think is goin on in his head?!?!
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    Jul 29, 2011 12:57 PM GMT
    I take it he's closeted? If so, you fucked up by telling your friend. No wonder he won't talk to you anymore.
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    Jul 29, 2011 1:00 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI take it he's closeted? If so, you fucked up by telling your friend. No wonder he won't talk to you anymore.


    LOL. Not so subtle but I'd wager good money that paulflexes is on the money!
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    Jul 29, 2011 1:03 PM GMT
    You should have asked him yourself. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 29, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    meninlove said You should have asked him yourself. icon_wink.gif


    ^^^THIS^^^

    You cuddled and made out with the guy and you mean to tell you can't ask him a simple question? Man up buddy.

    Also clearly he's not a closet case if he thinks you are cute otherwise he wouldn't have said you are cute. He's just not into you the way you'd like him to be.

    And the world moves on.
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    Jul 29, 2011 1:24 PM GMT
    Guy101 said
    meninlove said You should have asked him yourself. icon_wink.gif


    ^^^THIS^^^

    You cuddled and made out with the guy and you mean to tell you can ask him a simple question? Man up buddy.

    Also clearly he's not a closet case if he thinks you are cute otherwise he wouldn't siad you are cute. He's just not into you the way you'd like him to be.


    It's also worth considering that the guy may have been taken aback that a mutual friend is suddenly asking questions - the very next day, which MIGHT be why he's not talking .

    OP, you had a one night kiss and cuddle. It didn't mean to him what it did to you. This happens.

    So here: *HUG*

    -Doug

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    Jul 29, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    Sometimes kissing and cuddling is just that, no matter how fun it is at the time icon_sad.gif

    The positive side to the situation is to cherish the fun moment had, the chance to be close and (a bit) physical with him.

    It could just be as simple as him realising after kissing you that he doesn't feel more for you.

    ((hug))
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    Jul 30, 2011 5:11 AM GMT
    thanks Doug and Kangourou! he isnt in the closet, i just found out why he was ignoring me so all is well, he asked me out yesterday, he was just nervous about starting something with me cause i got out of a serious relationship recently. we agreed to take it slow. but jeez some of you queers are a bunch of bitter bitches hahaha! but thanks for the input anyway icon_smile.gif