Do you/Have you ever questioned your sexuality?

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    Jul 30, 2011 2:41 AM GMT
    Have you ever questioned your homosexuality? Like sometimes maybe you were 'brainwashed' in to being gay somehow? Or you just thought that none of the girls in your school were hot so you figured you were gay?

    There have been times when I've seen or met some women and thought "wow I'd fuck her" or "I could marry this woman" and it catches me off guard because I've accepted myself as a homosexual a long time ago. There has also been many moments where I think about fucking a pussy and fuckin it HARD. I know that theres a famous saying that there comes a time in every mans life to question his sexuality and this is the exact same thing but inverted.

    I'm pretty confident in saying that I'm a homo and I love the cock, but I also have never been with a woman sexually and I am a bit curious as to what its like. I'd also like to get other gay men's perspective on this whole thing.

    P.S. If this has been posted before sorry, I just checked the first page and didn't see anything similar so I went on ahead and posted this.
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:51 AM GMT
    I remember trying to think of females when I would masturbate... thinking it would turn me straight.


    LOL


    LOL


    Whew, I was so wrong. I have never found a female to be sexually attractive to me. Not once. So I guess I always knew.
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    Jul 30, 2011 3:55 AM GMT
    If I wanted a woman I'd have no problem getting one, cuz women always randomly approach me; I've learned to accept that I'm "cougar bait". icon_eek.gif

    You have nothing to lose by exploring your curiosity with women. You might find out you enjoy it and that your actually bi. It's not a good idea to beat yourself up over it or try to suppress it though.

    I tried to suppress being gay for years and i even tried sex with a woman once, and I found it not at all to my liking. The whole time i was thinking about another guy inorder to maintain "readiness" lol.

    Who knows, once you give it a try you might think like me and wonder "what on earth straight men see in vagina that make them act the way they do" haha.
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    Jul 30, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    no
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    Jul 30, 2011 3:58 AM GMT
    When I was younger, yeah I questioned it a lot because I was raised to believe that gayness was unnatural.
    Took a few years to break free from that chain, but I'm glad I did.
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    Jul 30, 2011 4:05 AM GMT
    Yeah, I used to think I was bi (at least, I convinced myself I was bi because I thought it was easier to come out as bi than gay). Now I'm very confident in being gay.

    Soulasphyxi saidI remember trying to think of females when I would masturbate... thinking it would turn me straight.


    Yeah I used to do the same thing. icon_lol.gif Between masturbating to girls, and watching straight porn, thinking I was attracted to the girls in the videos... sigh.
  • nvaguy69

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    Jul 30, 2011 4:09 AM GMT
    Never questioned it. 100% into men.
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    Jul 30, 2011 6:10 AM GMT
    Soulasphyxi saidI remember trying to think of females when I would masturbate... thinking it would turn me straight.


    LOL


    LOL


    Whew, I was so wrong. I have never found a female to be sexually attractive to me. Not once. So I guess I always knew.


    lol any specific female?
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    Jul 30, 2011 6:16 AM GMT
    I always thought I was gay. Then my first real kiss was from a girl and that made me know 100% for sure that I was gay icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 30, 2011 8:05 AM GMT
    Yep- too much too.

    First I thought that it was some disease/phase that would go away. Allah didn't listen to my prayers to be "cured" so that's that.

    Then I thought that I was abused as a child but I have no recollection of this. I probably just thought that I had to be abused somehow because that's what everyone around me thought about homosexuals.

    These two instances occurred during my childhood. During my early teenage years I tried to convince myself that I was bi (I was totally not, haha) and tried to be with a few girls. Horrible times icon_lol.gif I also tried to think about females whilst jerking off. Needless to say, I went soft.
  • Lincsbear

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    Jul 30, 2011 12:43 PM GMT
    No.Pretty sure I was gay from puberty onwards.I`ve never been aroused by a woman.
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    Jul 30, 2011 1:03 PM GMT
    Nope.
  • denus

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    Jul 30, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    Minion said There has also been many moments where I think about fucking a pussy and fuckin it HARD.


    I get turned on by thinking about OTHER guys "fucking a pussy hard", so I guess that still makes me gay. >.>
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    Jul 30, 2011 1:21 PM GMT
    The thought of being with a woman has crossed my mind from time to time. But as soon as I imagine a girl naked..... its over. So in the end, I dont really question my sexuality.

    To the OP... you might be bisexual if you get that excited by girls too. Its not a black or white thing!
  • camofchris

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    Jul 30, 2011 1:33 PM GMT
    Question it? Nah, not really. Curious about how it came to be? Sure. All sorts of interesting theories. The pecker is the ultimate picker -- Women just don't do it for me. (-;

    Cam
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    Jul 30, 2011 1:53 PM GMT
    I must admit that I've thought about that a few times in the past and I believe it's more common among GLBT individuals who happen to be Christian. I know this from personal experience!

    But anyway, you're just curious and many of us get curious about the other sex at some point, straight and gay. I've wondered what it would be like to be with a woman as well at times and have no issue in saying that I find a woman to be cute or hot or sexy if appropriate. Some people just ooze sexuality, be it a man or a woman and there is nothing wrong in recognizing that.

    Also, I know quite a few straight men who couldn't get a girl in middle or high school and they are straight; it's all about what arouses you!

    Be well.

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    Jul 30, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    No
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Jul 30, 2011 2:00 PM GMT
    I think, for some guys anyway, that it's sort of natural to question it. Your sexuality is such an important aspect of your personality that can steer your life in different directions. I sometimes wonder how my life would have turned out, and where I would be, had I been straight. I don't know if we are born this way, but I do know that certain events, experiences, and the environment we are raised in also play a large part in forming our sexual preference.
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:17 PM GMT
    Oh FUCK yes!
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
    Yeah I do question my sexuality from time to time. Not having been with a woman before, i am curious too. But right now i'm leaning 70% liking dudes and 30% chicas. Lol my parents hope for a miracle that i'm just in a phase and hopefuly choose the straight life..At this point i'm open minded thats all. icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:36 PM GMT
    The image of a prolapsed vagina covered in ingrown pubic hair really cements my homosexuality.

  • tuffguyndc

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    Jul 30, 2011 2:38 PM GMT
    i think everyone has at some point then they come to terms with who they are
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:49 PM GMT
    Never questioned my sexuality, but I did try to change my sexuality in jr high... I finally accepted it, but dated girls in hs to hide it... oops. icon_biggrin.gif
  • trainhard2011

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    Jul 30, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    Nope. Guys were always the best. I always liked the gay in me. I love it actually.
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    Jul 30, 2011 3:00 PM GMT
    I have had sex with both sexes. Eventually men just aroused me way more.

    I mean I love a nice built chest with a light fluff of hair working my hands down his his firm thick baseball biceps, then to his nicely tight and ripped abs following his treasure trail with my lips while my hands are holding on to his firm apple bubble butt. My mouth drools with the excitement of his cock poking out of his boxers, I quickly pull off his boxers and continue to kiss and lick down and into his inner thigh where is balls and thigh meet. Kissing and licking with the light smell of musk I slowly tickle his balls with my tongue working each ball around and around watching the pre-cum ooz with glisten and excitement. He is stiff and large... I plunge my lips over his thick cock, sucking, then pulling back just to nibble the head. Quickly I throw his cock down my throat with a light gag realizing this man is larger than I thought. I slowly pull back and forth, back and forth....


    Ok... Yea that makes me so gay!!!icon_eek.gif