Why Are The Cute Guys I Click With Always Straight??

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    Jul 30, 2011 7:17 AM GMT


    Happened again... happens all the g-dam time... grrrrr icon_evil.gif

    Just venting, feel free to ignore... beh :/
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    Jul 30, 2011 8:01 AM GMT
    GreenHopper said

    Happened again... happens all the g-dam time... grrrrr icon_evil.gif

    Just venting, feel free to ignore... beh :/


    Yea, it sucks icon_rolleyes.gif And even after several times we still feel at least a bit down about it.
  • Wallar

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    Jul 30, 2011 8:13 AM GMT
    Maybe you're actually a transwoman.
  • CHD88

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    Jul 30, 2011 8:40 AM GMT
    Because there's a 9 out of 10 chance they're straight. It sucks...I always end up falling for the straight ones. I feel for you
  • trainhard2011

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    Jul 30, 2011 12:21 PM GMT
    Because you probably don't associate with gay guys. You probably don't go to gay clubs, etc. If you did, you would click with a gay guy.
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    Jul 30, 2011 12:26 PM GMT
    isnt tht wat girls feel when they like a gay guy?? i guess thts life bt yeh hopefully u meet mr right guy n wit ur looks it wont take long
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    Jul 30, 2011 1:26 PM GMT
    GreenHopper said

    Happened again... happens all the g-dam time... grrrrr icon_evil.gif

    Just venting, feel free to ignore... beh :/


    Here, from me to you.
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    I know. I have the same problems too buddy. I think it has to do with the fact that they are straight and they don't feel the need to put up a front, and they can just really be themselves. When guys are just themselves, they're more fun, more relaxed, and more confident. Of course you'll click with them more.

    And like someone said above, you have 9/10 chance to click with a straight guy and only 1/10 chance to click with a gay guy.
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    Jul 30, 2011 1:37 PM GMT
    Straight to bed
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    Jul 30, 2011 1:37 PM GMT
    because just like women think all the good men are taken and straight guys go for women who arent interested....

    u want what u cant have
  • trainhard2011

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    Jul 30, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
    Edward22 saidThe fine ones always straight. Ones that are gay are ugly icon_evil.gif


    I know Edward, you and me both. Two fugly homos.
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    Edward22 saidThe fine ones always straight. Ones that are gay are ugly icon_evil.gif


    What dumb thing to say. No wonder why people don't like you here.
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    I'm falling for a straight guy now. He is hotter and matches me better in personality than any gay I have ever met. icon_cry.gif
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    Edward22 said
    waimea said
    Edward22 saidThe fine ones always straight. Ones that are gay are ugly icon_evil.gif


    What dumb thing to say. No wonder why people don't like you here.
    And i should care why? icon_razz.gif


    Edward, work on your inside. Make it fine like a straight guy.
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    Edward22 said
    waimea said
    Edward22 saidThe fine ones always straight. Ones that are gay are ugly icon_evil.gif


    What dumb thing to say. No wonder why people don't like you here.
    And i should care why? icon_razz.gif

    That's fine if you don't care, but it is clearly that you do. You get so offended when people get nasty with you. Like uberbane or chainers. They're just expressing their hate for you.
  • trainhard2011

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    Jul 30, 2011 2:33 PM GMT
    dekiruman saidI'm falling for a straight guy now. He is hotter and matches me better in personality than any gay I have ever met. icon_cry.gif


    Because straight is "good" and gay is "bad". That's what society tells you. Homophobia101.
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    Jul 30, 2011 2:38 PM GMT
    waimea said
    Edward22 said
    waimea said
    Edward22 saidThe fine ones always straight. Ones that are gay are ugly icon_evil.gif


    What dumb thing to say. No wonder why people don't like you here.
    And i should care why? icon_razz.gif

    That's fine if you don't care, but it is clearly that you do. You get so offended when people get nasty with you. Like uberbane or chainers. They're just expressing their hate for you.
    Neither one of them matter to me particularly because they don't even know me honestly do you think being offended by someone over a laptop is offensive? Well it's not the case with me let them say whatever, I'm gonna do whatever they can't stop me. I disagree however with you thinking that i am offended when actually i am defending myself what do you think i should do stand there and be insulted and not respond?
  • trainhard2011

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    Jul 30, 2011 2:40 PM GMT
    Edward, you care based on that long post.
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    Jul 30, 2011 3:03 PM GMT
    I think it's easy to connect with a straight guy because of that lack of pretense for flirting and games from the straight guy's perspective. The straight guy knows there's no chance of him being romantically interesting in you, so he's honest and jokes around without worrying about rejection.
    On the other hand with two gay guys, there's often that possibility of romantic attraction so both parties tend to skew how they act and are mroe aware of possible rejection.

    ...or at least that's my experiences. Maybe I just act crazy around gay people...

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    Jul 30, 2011 3:10 PM GMT
    I suppose you have many cute straight friends then ;p
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    Jul 30, 2011 3:56 PM GMT
    on the bright side, bromance is always the best =)
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    Jul 30, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    Because they have no expectations, no motive.
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    Jul 30, 2011 4:12 PM GMT
    jude114 saidBecause they have no expectations, no motive.


    Bingo. Plus I think having common interests play a role. I have great friendships with my straight buds. However, I have no gay friends (at least that I know are gay).
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Jul 30, 2011 4:20 PM GMT
    Yeah man, it happened to me this week too. My friend won a happy hour and she invited everyone from her lab at school.. And I was hitting it off with this one guy, far more than usual. Hot, funny, smart. We were cracking each other up... And then his girlfriend shows up to the bar.

    Although, when he was shakin' hands and saying goodbye to everyone, he did tell me that we should hang out. Didn't really know what to do with that.
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    Jul 30, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    Soccerjock18 saidisnt tht wat girls feel when they like a gay guy?? i


    Eureka!!!! Thats exactly it!!!! icon_biggrin.gif well-said, sir ^_^
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    Jul 30, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    vla8 saidI suppose you have many cute straight friends then ;p


    Yeah, Im in Latin-America :/