finally accepted my role in gay society.

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    Jul 30, 2011 6:42 PM GMT
    Fuck being a top... I'm better off being a bottom. That crossed my mind as I was walking with two of my friends back home from the gym. Seriously... I think I would fit better as the bottom in a relationship. I got the ass, got the emotional aspect of it, and shit... I can take care of a man.

    Past is the past for me... I'm used to topping, but you know what... I can get used to bottoming. As soon as I turn 19, going to find me a tough and kind man in a bar/club and I am going to take him home with me.

    Now I need to go update my profile.
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    Jul 30, 2011 6:49 PM GMT
    Egyptian_and_Proud saidFuck being a top... I'm better off being a bottom. That crossed my mind as I was walking with two of my friends back home from the gym. Seriously... I think I would fit better as the bottom in a relationship. I got the ass, got the emotional aspect of it, and shit... I can take care of a man.

    Past is the past for me... I'm used to topping, but you know what... I can get used to bottoming. As soon as I turn 19, going to find me a tough and kind man in a bar/club and I am going to take him home with me.

    Now I need to go update my profile.


    I have no experience with topping or bottoming but why not just be a versatile guy? Sounds like you might enjoy both roles icon_smile.gif Have you even tried bottoming and realised that you like it?
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    Jul 30, 2011 6:50 PM GMT
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    Egyptian_and_Proud saidFuck being a top... I'm better off being a bottom. That crossed my mind as I was walking with two of my friends back home from the gym. Seriously... I think I would fit better as the bottom in a relationship. I got the ass, got the emotional aspect of it, and shit... I can take care of a man.

    Past is the past for me... I'm used to topping, but you know what... I can get used to bottoming. As soon as I turn 19, going to find me a tough and kind man in a bar/club and I am going to take him home with me.

    Now I need to go update my profile.


    I have no experience with topping or bottoming but why not just be a versatile guy? Sounds like you might enjoy both roles icon_smile.gif Have you even tried bottoming and realised that you like it?


    I've tried it twice, definitely not as enjoyable as topping, but I guess for me sex is more emotional than physical...and I definitely did enjoy being the submissive one when I bottomed.

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    Jul 30, 2011 6:53 PM GMT
    Wait a tick.....I thought you were a bottom to begin with....icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 30, 2011 6:54 PM GMT
    Oh ok. I was never aware that some guys can be exclusively bottoms or tops before joining RJ this year. I was actually a bit shocked as I think that I might like both. I won't know until I try though. So much to learn... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 30, 2011 6:55 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidWait a tick.....I thought you were a bottom to begin with....icon_lol.gif


    Guess you were right. I was in a long period of denial. Thought bottoms were treated like they weren't worth anything... not until I had a talk with someone who changed my mind.
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    Jul 30, 2011 6:57 PM GMT
    Its all good mate. Hell I bottom like half the time, so that's why I like to consider myself a verse...Hmm when I get back to town sometime soon, I'll take you out to coffee. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 30, 2011 7:00 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidIts all good mate. Hell I bottom like half the time, so that's why I like to consider myself a verse...Hmm when I get back to town sometime soon, I'll take you out to coffee. icon_smile.gif


    I'll be at UTM - which means I would be close to your place (you live in Mississauga right?).

    deal icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 30, 2011 7:14 PM GMT
    Mississauga for the time being yes as I'll be shifting to Toronto to stay with my Bro.
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    Jul 30, 2011 7:16 PM GMT
    Wait you mean you arent a bottom that only wants to find a white man?

    Im so confused...
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    Jul 30, 2011 7:46 PM GMT
    Egyptian_and_Proud saidFuck being a top... I'm better off being a bottom. That crossed my mind as I was walking with two of my friends back home from the gym. Seriously... I think I would fit better as the bottom in a relationship. I got the ass, got the emotional aspect of it, and shit... I can take care of a man.

    Past is the past for me... I'm used to topping, but you know what... I can get used to bottoming. As soon as I turn 19, going to find me a tough and kind man in a bar/club and I am going to take him home with me.

    Now I need to go update my profile.


    Hey Mohammed, I think you got it things a little mixed up. How you enjoy your role in bed has nothing to do with your role in a relationship. Just because you enjoy being the nurturer doesn't make you an automatic bottom.
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    Jul 30, 2011 7:58 PM GMT
    A Bottom???

    Is that really you, Mo? Someone hacked your account? You fell on your head?

    What's next? You being ok with an open relationship?

    What happened?
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    Jul 30, 2011 8:00 PM GMT
    I guess being versatile isn't an option? lol
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    Jul 30, 2011 8:33 PM GMT
    I'm so disappointed.

    Weren't you the same person who posted the video about doing away with the baseless attributes about what it means to be a top or a bottom, and how it does not have to be either or. Why have you pigeonholed yourself?

    You're smarter than this.
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    Jul 31, 2011 12:05 AM GMT
    Mohammed seems too well-rounded to have drafted about 95% of his original post. Including the part about meeting in a bar/club. Ewww.

    I think this is an elaborate scheme for some nefarious purpose icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 31, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    I randomly switch from it day to day. Some days I want to be one, other days the latter.

    For you sir, if you enjoy being a top you should just be a top.
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    Jul 31, 2011 2:57 AM GMT
    No guys. I am serious about this. What I say theoretically and what ACTUALLY goes on in real life are two different things.
    Yes, I still hold true to what I say in my video about you're a man whether you are a top or bottom (i.e. nurturing doesn't give you an automatic place)... BUT honestly, I am probably NEVER going to find a 100 % devoted bottom who is bigger and more "buff" than me.

    So, I just switched myself instead. I was in a period of denial because I didn't see a bright future in what I had planned... I still want to get married when I am young, hell yea!... but fuck... I will most likely get what I want if I be the bottom.

    Sorry if it hurts guys, but I think that's reality... It's time for me to let go of my theoretical ideal world where everything is perfect and get back on the ground where everyone else is.

    Cheers,
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    Jul 31, 2011 2:59 AM GMT
    It's funny how you can often guess the age of the poster by the content of their message.
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    Jul 31, 2011 3:12 AM GMT
    Egyptian_and_Proud saidFuck being a top... I'm better off being a bottom. That crossed my mind as I was walking with two of my friends back home from the gym. Seriously... I think I would fit better as the bottom in a relationship. I got the ass, got the emotional aspect of it, and shit... I can take care of a man.

    Past is the past for me... I'm used to topping, but you know what... I can get used to bottoming. As soon as I turn 19, going to find me a tough and kind man in a bar/club and I am going to take him home with me.

    Now I need to go update my profile.


    Damnit! LOL
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    Jul 31, 2011 3:15 AM GMT
    well you're a hot bottom then.icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 31, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    Wow...i thought you enjoyed being a Top.
    If youre comfortable with your decision, thats cool.
    But remember, nothings written in stone.
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    Jul 31, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    I found out the best way to turn down a guy in LA without hurting is feelings is saying "I am a total bottom" icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 31, 2011 3:36 AM GMT
    Egyptian_and_Proud saidFuck being a top... I'm better off being a bottom. That crossed my mind as I was walking with two of my friends back home from the gym. Seriously... I think I would fit better as the bottom in a relationship. I got the ass, got the emotional aspect of it, and shit... I can take care of a man.

    Past is the past for me... I'm used to topping, but you know what... I can get used to bottoming. As soon as I turn 19, going to find me a tough and kind man in a bar/club and I am going to take him home with me.

    Now I need to go update my profile.


    The lie is that you have to choose either of those options in the first place.
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    Jul 31, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    stop living your life constrained to absolutes.
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    Jul 31, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    Egyptian_and_Proud said... As soon as I turn 19, going to find me a tough and kind man in a bar/club and I am going to take him home with me.
    And he'll probably be a big power bottom.