the "TOW MONTHS" challenge!!

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    Apr 29, 2008 7:23 AM GMT

    ok .. so yesterday me and my friend ( just a friend) decided to take this challege .. he came up with this idea and I said "yes!" without thinking a lot about it , maybe because my life started to look boring and empty lately ..

    icon_idea.gif Here we go : two months without dating guys , no one night stands , no kisses , no flirts .. let's say straight for two months .. to date and hang out with girls ( no sex with them or kisses , yuck!)
    My friend will not have any problem because he's Bi .. but me , well , I'm tired of the one night stands .. everything seems meaningless , not satisfying ..

    It'll help also to concentrate on yourself and your life ..

    Now what do you think about it .. AND who is ready to take this step with us ?!! (in the 29 of june it's over.. then you'll be ready to decide how do you wanna continue from this point)
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    Apr 29, 2008 7:37 AM GMT
    Are you... erm... planning to deceive girls? icon_eek.gif

    That's evil! icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 29, 2008 8:07 PM GMT

    OWW .. no , It's just um .. err.. ya know I .. I .. I .. sh ..

    Just HANG-OUT with them .. not dating or something ..
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    Apr 29, 2008 8:11 PM GMT
    sorry, denial of sexual desire is against my religion (literally). you have "fun" though icon_confused.gif
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    Apr 29, 2008 8:20 PM GMT

    Denial??

    It's just I feel that my life sucks with the whole one night stands and meaningless sex .. I just want to take a break and think about the next move .. about love or a relationship .. or maybe dating guys (not in bed)
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    Apr 29, 2008 8:24 PM GMT
    sorry. the way it was worded i thought you were having a contest to see who could stop being a whore the longest. i misunderstood. good luck.
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    Apr 29, 2008 8:31 PM GMT

    No it's not the LONGEST .. it's just for two months that's it ..
    and well .. one night stands (call it being whore) lots of people live on it (i don't think it's wrong) .. but now ..after only 4 month I started it I decided to change my way .. is it wrong ???
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    Apr 29, 2008 9:05 PM GMT
    no, definitely not. you have to do what is best for you at any given stage of your life. if you need time off, you need time off. i don't personally think that creating a "2 month challenge" is what you need... what if you come to your decision in only 3 weeks? for the next 5 weeks you sit and squash your nuts? what if you need 3 months? are you a failure for not doing it in 2?

    do what you need as you need.
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    Apr 30, 2008 6:58 AM GMT
    Ya.. I can know what I want maybe in one month .. but we decided to make it two months ..know where it starts and where it ends ..that's why it's called a CHALLENGE .. cuz it can be hard .. it teaches you to control your desires or needs for a period of time that is not related to any of the changes that will occur during them ..