Preparing to bottom

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    Aug 01, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    Hi guys.

    I have very little experience but one thing I would like to try sometime is being a bottom, but I have no idea what preparation I should do and I was looking for advice.

    I was chatting with a gay friend but he is a top and didn't really know that much about what was required to get ready, as he has never really been with a guy his first time as a bottom.

    So, any experienced bottoms out there who can tell me about preparation, so I have a good experience, I would appreciate it.

    Everything from how to shave my hairy butt crack so that the hair doesn't get in the way, cleaning, should I use a dildo to prepare, etc.

    Tbanks guys.
  • Scriven

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    Aug 02, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    Doesn't this forum have a search feature? Two threads started about the same topic at the same time?
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    Aug 02, 2011 11:33 PM GMT
    Haha that's funny. I didn't see his when I posted mine.
  • Scriven

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    Aug 03, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    Well, to answer your question, there isn't any one "right" answer. Some people like to doushe beforehand but I don't know how important it is. I've been told the safest way to "Clean" yourself is to use the restroom about 30 minutes before. Shaving is a personal preference, health-wise I heard its not the safest thing in the world because you might cut yourself/get an ingrown hair.

    Some people will tell you that the Cowboy position is the easiest way to bottom, but I personally don't care for it because when I bottom I like the top to be the more assertive one. The other position that I've heard is the easiest is to lay on your side with one leg on the top's shoulder and the other between his leg.

    You can try and loose yourself up first with a dildo a couple of days in advance, but honestly what's the point in that? You want your first time to be amazing and taking a dick isn't that much like a dildo anyway.

    Understand it's going to hurt, try to relax, ask him to go slow, and make sure he uses a rubber
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:36 AM GMT
    Thanks. Great advice!