Would you fight for your man?

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    Aug 01, 2011 11:03 PM GMT
    The guy im dating now likes to pick with me I think to try to make me jealous. I know its all in fun but he tells me about this guy flirting with him at work.

    I play along and tell him Im coming down there to beat the guys ass & we both laugh about it.

    Him not knowing my temper, part of me is serious, lol. Then he says when I talk like that it turns him on. I know its all in fun but I think its funny & weird he makes a point to tell me about guys flirting with him & hitting on him.

    You think he does this to get attention from me or what? I dont like hearing about guys hitting on him or making offers to him but we arent to serious yet so I blow it off & play along.....why does he tell me this shit?

    Sometimes I wanna be hateful & tell him they can have him if he finds it so funny. Wtf?
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    Aug 02, 2011 2:19 AM GMT
    Maybe he just wants/needs/craves affirmation that he's got your eye/attention. ;-) It's a good feeling to know one person wants ya, right? That you're his, and vice versa. Humor him. Play along. When you get serious, then address it if it continues, 'cuz then it's just symptomatic of something else. He wants your attention most. But then again, he might just be a narcissist. icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 02, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    "If you love something, let it go..."

    No, I wouldn't fight. If I were dating someone and he wanted to play with someone else, I'd tell him to go for it.
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    Aug 02, 2011 2:27 AM GMT
    paulflexes said"If you love something, let it go..."

    No, I wouldn't fight. If I were dating someone and he wanted to play with someone else, I'd tell him to go for it.


    I'd fight Paul, but he'd only grope me icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 02, 2011 3:15 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]yourname2000
    I f'ing love red-heads explosive temper (so many of you have it). It's like watching a volcano erupt....mmm, such a force of nature, lol.

    Maybe he's playing with you/quote]


    You got the temper part right. I put up with things for awhile & then i explode. After most people see it their scared to death of me, lol.

    But im trying to play along for now cuz i think hes just having fun & playing.
  • rebelbeard

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    Aug 02, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    I make it known that I am in to win it when I am with someone. I do not fight for a man. If he wants to be with someone else then so be it. I respect that decision. Never think for two seconds I am going to look like a desperate pathetic ass who has to fight other people to keep his man. You're in or you're out.

    Easy.
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    Aug 02, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    The question is it disrespectful to you?
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    Aug 02, 2011 3:30 AM GMT
    HELL YEAH!!!!! YOU DAM RIGHT!
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    Aug 02, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    Wow. If I had a man, I'd like it if he chased away any guy that tried to flirt with me. I'd find a little bit of jealousy romantic as long as it doesn't get out of hand. Also, with so many open relationships out there, I'm surprised he hasn't asked the flirts to just "join in on the fun" when you make love [have sex].

    I think it's strange that he's trying to push your buttons like that. Maybe he's testing you to see if you'd like to open the relationship. ???
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    Aug 02, 2011 4:41 AM GMT
    If he's telling you about guys that hit on him is part of a happy go lucky nature thats ok, but id ask him to tone it down a bit.
    Now if he's doing it to push your buttons...I see that as a little disrespectful and immature . Id get tired of it and have to get to the bottom of it. Im not sure if id fight for him. Good Luck
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    Aug 02, 2011 4:53 AM GMT
    You shouldn't fight over anyone, although sometimes your emotions gets the best of you. But you gotta use your head and common sense for situations like this, not having you regret your actions later on.
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    Aug 02, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    The guy I'm seeing right now is a freakin semi-pro body builder. I'm pretty certain that he can handle himself in any situation that required a little TCB. However, yea, I'd go to battle if necessary. I have no problem with that, but it would take a lot to get me to that point. I'm no pushover.

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    Aug 02, 2011 5:15 AM GMT
    Oh man. I would worry if one day he just out of the blue stops telling you about these things. Then you'll wonder:

    1. Are guys just not flirting with him anymore?

    or

    2. Is there a reason why he just stopped telling you about the flirting?
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    Aug 02, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    HAHAHA. some of these guys didn't even read the content of your thread. they are just responding to the title of this thread.

    altho, the title doesn't really match the content.
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    Aug 02, 2011 5:22 AM GMT
    Hes just teasing you babe...
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    Aug 02, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    Sometimes my arms bend back. I tell them to put the straight jacket on the correct way! It's so tedious typing with my tongue. I wish I could fight my way out of this wet paper sack.
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    Aug 02, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    Mmmmm... angry redheads....
  • barriehomeboy

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    Aug 02, 2011 8:22 AM GMT
    If it's that confrontational now, how will it be when the honeymoon wears off? It's probably not going to last as long as the wedding cake.
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    Aug 02, 2011 8:31 AM GMT
    He wants to know you still care. The minute you stop caring if he's flirting with other guys is the minute he knows your relationship or whatever you have is dead.
    If the guy you're dating is flirting back, shouldn't you save some of your anger for him? The other guys couldn't flirt with him if he doesn't flirt back.