Edward22 saidOk guys here's what's up my brother is getting married soon on August 20th although i am happy for him and wish him well i do not like the fact that he wants me to be apart of his double life ways of being uncommitted to his fiance' by requesting that i do him favors by calling hotlines at his expense to hook up with other women not his fiance'. It makes no sense to me whatsoever because he wants to be married and start a family but refuses to give up his cheating ways to be committed and i am steady pondering in his pool. I'm in bit of a bind and wonder if any of you guys know how i can get out of this.
Hmmm well when the pastor says "speak now or forever hold your peace"...that would be the time to say something. Yes, it will put a drift between you and your brother but at the same time, it would be the right thing to do. It's not fair to that woman because she may be fully committed and he's not. When your brother asks you why you did it, tell him to put himself in her shoes...he would want someone to do the same thing for him if he found out she was being unfaithful. The decision is up to you but I would definitely say something (maybe you could talk to her one-on-one about it) because the way I see it, it's basically helping him cheat if you don't. She doesn't deserve that, right? Nobody does. Good luck!!