Is it weird...

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    Aug 03, 2011 12:28 AM GMT
    To be told by the guy you are dating for the past two months that you are one of the best fucks he's ever had and he wants to see you get fucked by someone else or by a bunch of guys.

    How would you react if this was told to you while having sex by the guy you are seriously dating?
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    Aug 03, 2011 12:47 AM GMT
    Um, yes. It's weird. And I would no longer be seriously dating the retard.
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    Aug 03, 2011 12:49 AM GMT
    Maybe.
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    Aug 03, 2011 12:50 AM GMT
    Sounds like this guy REALLY likes you for the sex. Does he like you for anything else? (serious question, i'm a bit concerned ><)
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    Aug 03, 2011 12:54 AM GMT
    During sex, I have no idea how I would react, but now, later, I'd definitely talk to him about it.
    Was this just some BS in the heat of the moment?
    Is he serious about this?
    Does he have a cuckolding-fetish?

    Have you guys had 'the talk' about being exclusive yet? Or do you think that is implied? Automatic?
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    Aug 03, 2011 12:55 AM GMT
    Um, yes.
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    Aug 03, 2011 1:49 AM GMT
    Gaydar saidSounds like this guy REALLY likes you for the sex. Does he like you for anything else? (serious question, i'm a bit concerned ><)


    He used to say that the best aprt of the relationship was the cuddling and the look in our eyes when we looked at each other.

    He introduced me to two of her friends. We we meet up it was more than: hi let's fuck and bye.... We were having a bf-bf relationship without it being defined. So I guess the answer to that question is yes.

    thanks for being concerned icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 03, 2011 1:50 AM GMT
    For some people thats hot...
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    Aug 03, 2011 1:53 AM GMT
    bhp91126 saidDuring sex, I have no idea how I would react, but now, later, I'd definitely talk to him about it.
    Was this just some BS in the heat of the moment?
    Is he serious about this?
    Does he have a cuckolding-fetish?

    Have you guys had 'the talk' about being exclusive yet? Or do you think that is implied? Automatic?


    Well he said he would want to do it at some pont so he was serious about it.

    We were exclusive in sex yes... but we were allowed to date other people at first?!... even though it would make him feel uncomfortable if I did date someone else....
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    Aug 03, 2011 1:54 AM GMT
    WTF! are you that comfortable telling and asking people about this?! its weird that you have no moral talking the way you do.
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    Aug 03, 2011 1:55 AM GMT
    Oy, you and your sex drama icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 03, 2011 2:07 AM GMT
    Kanaka24 saidWTF! are you that comfortable telling and asking people about this?! its weird that you have no moral talking the way you do.


    I don't see what is wrong about asking/telling this...
    I have never encountered such behavior before so I'm asking if it is normal...

    I'm sorry if you are offended, but I am not sorry I asked the question. Sex at the end of the day is not a big deal.... Everybody does it and there is no manual that explains on how to do it.

    I was just wondering if guys would act like this with someone you would consider having a serious relationship with at some point.
  • dancedancekj

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    Aug 03, 2011 2:15 AM GMT
    So he seriously wants to plan it for some time in the future? It isn't just a fantasy or a heat of the moment comment?

    If he still is interested in it, and keeps bringing it up, I believe the call is up to you, and how comfortable you feel with it. Some people dress up in costumes, some tie each other up, and some want their partner to get fucked/fuck with other men perhaps. I would feel as if my sexual partner were using me to fulfill some fantasy he saw in a porno, and I would tell that to him. If the relationship fell apart because I didn't want to participate in that, then so be it.
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:35 AM GMT
    I think it's weirder that you had to ask if that's weird.
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:49 AM GMT
    RSM23 said
    Kanaka24 saidWTF! are you that comfortable telling and asking people about this?! its weird that you have no moral talking the way you do.


    I don't see what is wrong about asking/telling this...
    I have never encountered such behavior before so I'm asking if it is normal...

    I'm sorry if you are offended, but I am not sorry I asked the question. Sex at the end of the day is not a big deal.... Everybody does it and there is no manual that explains on how to do it.

    I was just wondering if guys would act like this with someone you would consider having a serious relationship with at some point.


    You're right, sweetie. Everyone does it. However not everyone openly talks about it. In fact, those that do share the shelves with the jena jameson's, Brent Corrigan's, Ron jeremy's.
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    Aug 03, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    RSM23 saidTo be told by the guy you are dating for the past two months that you are one of the best fucks he's ever had and he wants to see you get fucked by someone else or by a bunch of guys.

    How would you react if this was told to you while having sex by the guy you are seriously dating?
    I'd tell him to fuck himself then move on...