Work dick....bad idea, and heteros say we are deviant?

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    Aug 03, 2011 1:13 PM GMT
    I have girl friends at work & straight guys that they just go around all fucking each other. They break up & go after the next guy or girl. It causes so much stress & tension at work. Then they say gays are bad? Please!

    Ive always thought work dick is such a horrible idea. I dont mix business & pleasure even though there are some damn hot men there, lol.
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    eww no...i mean having someone who's seen u naked and whom u've seen naked and done things to and they've done things to you while trying to work...how some people do it... boggles me mind icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:54 PM GMT
    Breeders are so silly.
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    Aug 03, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    I giggled at "work dick"

    I just imagined a guy standing there with a limpy saying "WORK, DICK!" because he has erectile dysfunction.
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    Aug 03, 2011 4:10 PM GMT
    mayBbignow2 saidWhy are you communicating or paying attention to them enough to notice this?


    Probably because he works with them?
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    Aug 03, 2011 4:14 PM GMT
    redbull saidI have girl friends at work & straight guys that they just go around all fucking each other. They break up & go after the next guy or girl. It causes so much stress & tension at work. Then they say gays are bad? Please!

    Ive always thought work dick is such a horrible idea. I dont mix business & pleasure even though there are some damn hot men there, lol.


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    Aug 03, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
    mayBbignow2 said
    HavenJock80 said
    Story of my work place! icon_razz.gif


    Why are you guys going on about trashy people?


    Cuz it's fun.
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    Aug 03, 2011 4:22 PM GMT
    OMG I want some work cock so bad!! is that trashy? icon_cry.gif All i do is work might as well get some work cock along the way.. They have sex on Mad Men on AMC all the time... that damn! Sexy ass Jon Hamm!!

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    Aug 03, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    mayBbignow2 said
    Gaydar said
    mayBbignow2 saidWhy are you communicating or paying attention to them enough to notice this?


    Probably because he works with them?


    Still just rolleye0014.gifsmh.gif
    And go about your life



    Because when you are in a meeting or working on a project as a group, it doesn't make it pleasant for anyone when the communication between two of the people involved is strained because of a relationship gone sour outside of work. Despite all this 'just do your work and mind your own business' philosophy, for most of us work is by its nature is a social atmosphere since it requires a great deal of communication between employees.
  • NerdLifter

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    Aug 03, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    I had never heard this term "Work Dick" before.

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    Aug 03, 2011 4:59 PM GMT
    I agree. It's a bad idea to date coworkers. When things go bad - and most of the time they do - it just makes for a bad situation all the way around.
  • jim_sf

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    Aug 03, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    As tempting as it can be sometimes, I never fish from the company pier.
  • Syphon

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    Aug 03, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    I'd go for guys at work... if any of them were actually gay. =/
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    Aug 03, 2011 9:43 PM GMT
    I came up with the term "work dick" i thought it was funny. I brought it up because working as a team environment it makes it so uncomfortable.

    For example my best gf at work ive known was dating a hot guy there. Ive known her for 15 yrs & he fed her a bunch of bull shit & lies. Cheated on her terrible so now the whole place is divided between him & his friends & us. Im learning he is a pathological liar & makes up shit so people will feel sorry for him.

    It causes so much strife at work when it all could be diverted if people didnt date work dick! It pisses me off because society thinks we are so deviant. They need to look in their own back yard before judging us.
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    Aug 03, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    redbull saidI came up with the term "work dick" i thought it was funny. I brought it up because working as a team environment it makes it so uncomfortable.

    For example my best gf at work ive known was dating a hot guy there. Ive known her for 15 yrs & he fed her a bunch of bull shit & lies. Cheated on her terrible so now the whole place is divided between him & his friends & us. Im learning he is a pathological liar & makes up shit so people will feel sorry for him.

    It causes so much strife at work when it all could be diverted if people didnt date work dick! It pisses me off because society thinks we are so deviant. They need to look in their own back yard before judging us.




    Enough said as to why you shouldn't have relations with someone you work with.
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    Aug 03, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    Long ago I dated this chick I worked with....that lesson still lingers...Just like dogs...you don't shit where you sleep.....BUD
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    Aug 03, 2011 10:08 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidWhere is that RJ member AW-something or whatever his name is who disdainfully judges homosexuals for their sexual behavior and praises heterosexuals for their decency and proper behavior? He would get a kick out of this. Or I would get a kick out of seeing his reaction to proving his perceptions of straights to be false.


    This goes against his belief that straight people are saints and gay men are going to hell so he will refuse to comment...
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    Aug 03, 2011 11:40 PM GMT
    Work dick??? WTF? Where the fuck do you work?
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    Aug 03, 2011 11:50 PM GMT
    Rule 4:

    Shit thee not where thou makest thine food, and let not thine cock be found in thy co-worker's mouth or arse; for thine co-workers are not for thee to poke carnally.
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    Aug 03, 2011 11:53 PM GMT
    The old term for "work dick" was "Never fish off the company pier." Yup, work relationships, whether a one-time or long-term thing is usually a bad idea, especially if you work in close proximity.
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    Aug 03, 2011 11:56 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said ..oh, idk: blowing the delivery man you just met in the bathroom at work, like an RJer was bragging about a week ago, lol.


    For the record, I was dressed up as a UPS guy (pre 9/11 when I had a part time driver helper job and managed to keep the uniform) - and I fucked the guy who set the event up in some furniture showroom at the top of some building on 34th St in view of the Empire State Bldg... fun times. icon_wink.gif

    Oh wait, y'all probably referring to another RJ'er...? icon_redface.gif
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    Aug 04, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
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    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidWhere is that RJ member AW-something or whatever his name is who disdainfully judges homosexuals for their sexual behavior and praises heterosexuals for their decency and proper behavior? He would get a kick out of this. Or I would get a kick out of seeing his reaction to proving his perceptions of straights to be false.

    Really? --every time one breeder does something slutty it justifies whatever slimy stuff gay guys want to do? I'm not sure about that. icon_biggrin.gif

    I've worked in a lot of straight envirionments and seen a good deal of dating, etc (even though I agree that it's a terrible idea), but I've never seen or heard of breeders at any of my jobs being slutty in public; getting caught fucking on the photocopier; etc, etc. So for me, there might be a difference between meeting your boyfriend at work and say....oh, idk: blowing the delivery man you just met in the bathroom at work, like an RJer was bragging about a week ago, lol.

    I'm not saying that breeders don't act like a bunch of horny teenagers --they do. I'm saying that a lot of gay guys act like meth'd out prostitutes who've just got to get another cock in them --any cock!!!-- now....names, condoms, salutations be damned! icon_lol.gif


    Dang, you really take things out of context. I never insinuated anything whatsoever about justifying behavior. The point of my post was to basically disprove that a self-hating member on RJ holds heterosexuals to a higher standard. How you distorted my post to assert that I'm justifying behavior between either gays or straights is beyond me.

    According to redbull, he sees a lot of whoring among the straights. But he didn't say they were fucking at work. Just because you don't see straights fucking from your own personal work experience with your own pair of eyes does not mean that it does not happen. It does happen.

    Oddly, I can turn on the television set and see heterosexuals fucking in a work environment. Granted, it's television. But it's everywhere and is very common. People on Gray's Anatomy are slutty whores fucking each other at their place of work. I just watched the movie Love and Other Drugs last night starring Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway. Not even five minutes into the movie and Jake's character is fucking some chick in the back stockroom of his job. What concerns me is how this bullshit is perpetuated in the media as to how straights behave yet no one ever judges it. But god forbid two gay men have sex in a public environment and so many people want to jump on it.


    Not to mention the fact that, in his post, he accuses us of taking the activity of one straight person and applying it to the society as a whole, then he takes the activity of one RJer and applies that to gay men as a whole. Literally hypocritical in his own damn post.

    He needs to learn to think.
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    Aug 04, 2011 1:17 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    yourname2000 said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidWhere is that RJ member AW-something or whatever his name is who disdainfully judges homosexuals for their sexual behavior and praises heterosexuals for their decency and proper behavior? He would get a kick out of this. Or I would get a kick out of seeing his reaction to proving his perceptions of straights to be false.

    Really? --every time one breeder does something slutty it justifies whatever slimy stuff gay guys want to do? I'm not sure about that. icon_biggrin.gif

    I've worked in a lot of straight envirionments and seen a good deal of dating, etc (even though I agree that it's a terrible idea), but I've never seen or heard of breeders at any of my jobs being slutty in public; getting caught fucking on the photocopier; etc, etc. So for me, there might be a difference between meeting your boyfriend at work and say....oh, idk: blowing the delivery man you just met in the bathroom at work, like an RJer was bragging about a week ago, lol.

    I'm not saying that breeders don't act like a bunch of horny teenagers --they do. I'm saying that a lot of gay guys act like meth'd out prostitutes who've just got to get another cock in them --any cock!!!-- now....names, condoms, salutations be damned! icon_lol.gif


    Dang, you really take things out of context. I never insinuated anything whatsoever about justifying behavior. The point of my post was to basically disprove that a self-hating member on RJ holds heterosexuals to a higher standard. How you distorted my post to assert that I'm justifying behavior between either gays or straights is beyond me.

    According to redbull, he sees a lot of whoring among the straights. But he didn't say they were fucking at work. Just because you don't see straights fucking from your own personal work experience with your own pair of eyes does not mean that it does not happen. It does happen.

    Oddly, I can turn on the television set and see heterosexuals fucking in a work environment. Granted, it's television. But it's everywhere and is very common. People on Gray's Anatomy are slutty whores fucking each other at their place of work. I just watched the movie Love and Other Drugs last night starring Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway. Not even five minutes into the movie and Jake's character is fucking some chick in the back stockroom of his job. What concerns me is how this bullshit is perpetuated in the media as to how straights behave yet no one ever judges it. But god forbid two gay men have sex in a public environment and so many people want to jump on it.

    Sorry, A...I was definitely having wave after wave of other threads wash over over me as I typed that out. But he's a buddy and since he wasn't here to respond to your comment, I did my best.

    I've never gotten that AWM has ever expected more of the gay community than the straight....or less. I know my personal opinion is "prude to the world" and "crazy-GGG-sex-whore" in the bedroom with my one guy. Both AWM and I end up on the same side of debates that I perceive as wanting to lower the bar on societal norms regarding public behavior, which I just don't think is necessary for gays to earn their equality to straights. I thought perhaps you were laying the bait for another debate. icon_lol.gif

    Sorry!


    I just wanted to bold that statement right there. Gays to EARN their equality, because equality should only be given if you mimic straight, white culture. Heaven forbid a black man try to touch on his own personal roots as well!
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    Aug 04, 2011 1:23 AM GMT
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    yourname2000 said ..oh, idk: blowing the delivery man you just met in the bathroom at work, like an RJer was bragging about a week ago, lol.


    For the record, I was dressed up as a UPS guy (pre 9/11 when I had a part time driver helper job and managed to keep the uniform) - and I fucked the guy who set the event up in some furniture showroom at the top of some building on 34th St in view of the Empire State Bldg... fun times. icon_wink.gif

    Oh wait, y'all probably referring to another RJ'er...? icon_redface.gif


    i wasnt the event planner, i lied, jokes on you!! icon_biggrin.gif
    hot.
  • FRE0

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    Aug 04, 2011 1:34 AM GMT
    When I worked for one company, the department manager, who was married, hired his mistress to work in the department. Everyone knew it, too. There were other things going on there that were not appropriate for a place of business.