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    Aug 03, 2011 1:44 PM GMT
    Why is it that people don't wanna date or be friends with african Americans these days? I see it on mostly everybody profile on here "no blacks" or" i don't talk to black people" or "only white,Latino,Asian, but no blacks". I mean really, what's up with that? We are people just like every other race and yet in the gay and str8 community we ate still kinda casted out. I even see It from black people to other black people " I don't date black people". To me that kinda rude and discouraging, it makes me wanna stop talk to people these days if that's how most people act these days. I don't hate any race and I have friends in every race and will date any race. It just makes me say when I see this sometimes like WOW that's messed up, what do y'all think? Give me your honest thoughts.
  • trainhard2011

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    Aug 03, 2011 2:26 PM GMT
    Their loss. Don't take it personal.
    You're better off.
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    Aug 03, 2011 2:39 PM GMT
    I'll try not to and thx man icon_smile.gif I just think it's sad how close minded people are in the gay community of all places
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    Aug 03, 2011 2:43 PM GMT
    mark_90 saidI'll try not to and thx man icon_smile.gif I just think it's sad how close minded people are in the gay community of all places



    There are many gay communities; this is just one of them. icon_wink.gif


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    Aug 03, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    don't just mean here I mean all of them
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    Have you been to the black sites? They are just as idiotic. So trust me! People just say things relative to what they are used too or familiar with. Product of what they see, where they grew up! Media, Environment, Etc. Honestly they do not know any better. Don't feel bad. I like it when the picking is slim and its direct like that- It helps me decide who is who.

    You will find out a lot are virgins, haven't left the litte town they grew up in, read a few books for school. oh! and probably have never met or hung out with anyone different then themselves and they probably aren't from cities like Miami or NYC . if they are and still like that, they have either just moved or have no social life. Or just Dumb! There is always that too. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    Pfft, whatever. I'll date a black guy. yay
  • Neurons

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    Aug 03, 2011 3:28 PM GMT
    I see that a lot too. I'd say something about it, but I see "no asians" almost just as much. People these days are so caught up with what society believes is beauty that they ignore anyone who doesn't meet their standards. It's actually pretty pathetic and a ton of guys on here even do it.

    Just forget about them. Better to find out someone is a jerk through their profile rather than wasting your time and finding out later on.icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
    People have their reasons, no matter how fucked up they may be.

    You just gotta remind yourself that you're a catch, whether as a friend or a lover, and know that it is their loss.

    I respond to some profiles asking for everything that I am mentally and emotionally, but solely because I'm black i'm not dateable or even capable of being a friend.

    I can date any race. To me attractive is attractive and I know what it looks like and acts like whether you're black, white, yellow, red or some multi-color spectrum straight from a freaking rainbow dream.

    When people tell me that its just a preference I respect that, but will also venture out to say well there's clearly more going when a guy can't even consider me as a friend because I'm black.

    But once again their loss.

    I was at a gas station with a guy and the women behind the counter was so cool and down to earth and just bubbly and fun and so I asked her if she would like to hang out sometime because she was really cool. I was quite snuggled up with a guy so it was obvious I was gay. And she said - that would make me very uncomfortable.

    Not race related, but once again her loss.

    Their loss, guy. Fuck them and appreciate those who know how special you are.
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    Aug 03, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    I don't get racism, I really just don't understand that mentality. But I do know that anyone who refuses to associate with a particular race has marked themselves out as a person I don't want anything to do with.
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    Aug 03, 2011 5:52 PM GMT
    Racism is acceptable again.

    Thank you Tea Party. icon_rolleyes.gif
    (For the Republicans, thank you Obama)


    It's really a blessing. The guys who say that are the exact kinds of guys you don't want to get to know anyways.
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    Aug 03, 2011 6:43 PM GMT
    Ermine saidRacism is acceptable again.

    Thank you Tea Party. icon_rolleyes.gif
    (For the Republicans, thank you Obama)


    It's really a blessing. The guys who say that are the exact kinds of guys you don't want to get to know anyways.



    This is true. We've clicked on some profiles that don't want anything to do with anyone over 35.
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    Aug 03, 2011 7:13 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Ermine saidRacism is acceptable again.

    Thank you Tea Party. icon_rolleyes.gif
    (For the Republicans, thank you Obama)


    It's really a blessing. The guys who say that are the exact kinds of guys you don't want to get to know anyways.



    This is true. We've clicked on some profiles that don't want anything to do with anyone over 35.


    ugh this topic again.

    Lets make a law that forces people to sleep with a black person for every white person they sleep with.

    Cause thats freedom!
  • qd2009

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    Aug 03, 2011 8:21 PM GMT
    Well, I've tried to make friends with gay blacks all the time.

    But it seems all you black guys want are white guys,
    and white guys want other white guys,
    and asians want white guys.
    LOLz

    I should just bleach my skin... how did MJ do it??? icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 03, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    qd2009 saidWell, I've tried to make friends with gay blacks all the time.

    But it seems all you black guys want are white guys,
    and white guys want other white guys,
    and asians want white guys.
    LOLz

    I should just bleach my skin... how did MJ do it??? icon_lol.gif


    Stop with the generalizations. Some of us white guys like to taste the fucking rainbow!
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    Aug 04, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    qd2009 saidWell, I've tried to make friends with gay blacks all the time.

    But it seems all you black guys want are white guys,
    and white guys want other white guys,
    and asians want white guys.
    LOLz

    I should just bleach my skin... how did MJ do it??? icon_lol.gif

    He had vitiligo.

    But everything else sounds right to a degree.
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    Aug 04, 2011 12:10 PM GMT
    Can we please stop using absolutes?

    And now for some general comments. Suffice it to say, I really hope this kind of kills this convo because it's tired and pretty boring actually.

    1. I wouldn't say most white people's profiles have no black or asian in them.
    2. The second you get more comfortable in your own skin, you'll realize you don't really care who likes you and who does not like you by virtue of trivial things, like your race.
    3. I'm attracted to whomever does it for me, may it be black, white, asian, latino, etc. So I would conceivably date anyone. But what I am not attracted to are the black dudes who are like "wah, I'm a social pariah" and "wah, white people don't like me." I understand that by virtue of being black, some people aren't going to like me or think I'm attractive. They may even think I'm dumb, or ghetto, or that I will never amount to anything. SO WHAT. Not everyone feels that way about blacks and you don't want to know the ones that do. Life your life and move on.

    Ok I'm done now. Thanks.
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    Aug 04, 2011 4:59 PM GMT
    Ermine saidIt's really a blessing. The guys who say that are the exact kinds of guys you don't want to get to know anyways.


    It's true, it's better for guys to be upfront.

    Rather than, for example, "dating" you for months because they like black cock before dumping you because you're not boyfriend material, i.e., because you're not white.

    Better to know from day one, if you ask me.
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    Mar 30, 2013 12:59 AM GMT
    @chainers
    You don't understand what I meant before you said what you said, but whatever you have your thoughts or whatever. And you don't understand what I mean so yeah it's whatever.