Is it just me or do dildo's and fleshjacks seem like a waste?

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    Aug 03, 2011 6:42 PM GMT
    I mean the way I look at it is if I want my hole played with I should really just find a top shouldnt I?

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    Aug 03, 2011 7:20 PM GMT
    If you can find one, remember?
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    Aug 03, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    Chainers saidI mean the way I look at it is if I want my hole played with I should really just find a top shouldnt I?

    Confused...



    You can't catch anything from the machines, lol. (Unless you don't look after them, but let's not go there) *nauseous emoticon*
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    Aug 04, 2011 8:34 AM GMT
    I'm all in favour of sex toys, I think they are great fun!

    The options are many - you can have fun with them on your own or with someone else.

    If you sit on a dildo while using the Fleshjack on yourself it's like topping and bottoming at the same time.

    Not saying they are a perfect substitute for the real thing but it's great fun to play with them with someone and they are great if you're on your own too because you can get off really well and you don't have to buy the Fleshjack dinner, you don't have to have the awkward conversation after and you don't need to worry if the dildo is gonna call you back.
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    Aug 04, 2011 11:42 AM GMT
    Ya we've had a ton of fun over the years with toys.
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    Aug 04, 2011 1:44 PM GMT
    solo sex with toys is completely different, IMO, than sex with someone else...you can focus solely on your own pleasure and fantasies. this can become quite a skillset.

    sex with others has the intimacy component that toys lack.

    sex with others and toys can become quite fun, but is generally for after you've exhausted everything you can do with what you were given by nature

    i'd rather have toys to meet my mammoth drive than hookup and have lousy experiences...most men are pretty vanilla and the overhead on training them is prohibitive unless they actually meet some intimacy needs too...
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    Aug 04, 2011 3:10 PM GMT
    BambinoRex saidi'd rather have toys to meet my mammoth drive than hookup and have lousy experiences...most men are pretty vanilla and the overhead on training them is prohibitive unless they actually meet some intimacy needs too...


    LOL, this.
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    Aug 04, 2011 3:17 PM GMT
    Chainers saidI mean the way I look at it is if I want my hole played with I should really just find a top shouldnt I?

    Confused...


    Who in their right mind would want to have sex with you?!

    j/k

    Yeah just find a hot top. Have him fuck your brains out.
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    Aug 05, 2011 10:39 AM GMT
    Where'd Chainers go? icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 05, 2011 4:12 PM GMT
    Pure saidWhere'd Chainers go? icon_sad.gif


    Oh, no! icon_cry.gif Hopefully he's just hidden temporarily for some random reason.
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    Aug 08, 2011 2:30 PM GMT
    A guy put a butt plug in me the other week and it was a lot different to have a cock up there. I didn't like the tapered tip, it felt like it was stabbing the side of my colon whereas cocks somehow just fit ergonomically! It was good but strange. But I'd say they have their place especially in foreplay and practice for the real thing.
    I'd love to fuck a guy and get fucked at the same time but I have the fear that I'll go soft so I might give the toys a go first.