I agree that it's not your body or looks that are stopping you from getting laid.
It has to be that you're not putting yourself out there like you used to. (me not knowing or saying what you used to do)
Say if you put up a Craigslist ad for a guy to play with, with your age...your looks...wow your inbox would filled and you'd think to yourself hmmm "which guy should I pick tonight"
p.s. if you go the Craigslist ad, put up faceless pics. Only show your face to serious replys