fratguy14 saidI think it's something with me, but it seems whenever I hookup with a guy I met online, there is always this awkward moment from when we meet at the door to the bedroom. Then it carries over to the foreplay and sex and makes the whole experience sort of awkward. Any advice on how to improve the situation?
First rule of Southern hospitality: "If you are uncomfortable, then your guests will be too."
Are you just meeting at the door and going to fuck? That's hella awkward.
I suggest a social lubricant (like two shots of Jack Daniels) and a refusal to hookup until after lots of small talk (learn the person's name, occupation, hobbies, etc.) to set yourself at ease.
My last online hookup and I chatted for two and half hours over wine before the naked stuff started.
I would just say "don't hookup" -- but I know how it gets when you're horny.