Aug 05, 2011 1:46 PM GMT
I know we tend to second guess ourselves when things go wrong, but what about when things go right?
I have lost 80lbs, but I have stretch marks and some loose skin due to being overweight. I am starting to feel comfortable with myself and starting to date. I think I feel a bit jilted because when I met a guy I like and we got into bed together he saw me and asked "What happened to you?" I told him and I gave him the choice and he left before anything else happened. This has put me on alert.
I now have another guy interested in me but I am wary that when it comes to the point of sex or being naked he may do the same thing. Should I be upfront and tell him about my body or just let nature take its course. I really do not want to keep second guessing the achievements I have done for myself. I should feel proud of what I have accomplished, but it seems to get buried a lot.
Thanks for the advice and stories if you are willing to share.
I have lost 80lbs, but I have stretch marks and some loose skin due to being overweight. I am starting to feel comfortable with myself and starting to date. I think I feel a bit jilted because when I met a guy I like and we got into bed together he saw me and asked "What happened to you?" I told him and I gave him the choice and he left before anything else happened. This has put me on alert.
I now have another guy interested in me but I am wary that when it comes to the point of sex or being naked he may do the same thing. Should I be upfront and tell him about my body or just let nature take its course. I really do not want to keep second guessing the achievements I have done for myself. I should feel proud of what I have accomplished, but it seems to get buried a lot.
Thanks for the advice and stories if you are willing to share.